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writes:Hey,Recently my girlfriend and I went on a break, we've gotten back together and things are going great, however there's one thing that has really started getting annoying for me, she's constantly texting. Now she's pretty attractive, so over the course of a week she'll get texts from 4-5 different guys, some creepier than others. When these guys text her she replies, carries out conversations etc, it's just gotten really annoying. The most annoying thing though is that when she's with her friends or anyone except me, she says she can't text, making me feel like I'm low enough on her priority list to the point that she feels like she can do that in front of me. Any advice on what to say to her if she's doing this with out meaning anything behind it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): My girlfriend does the same thing and i've told her how it pisses me off!
She stopped doing it for a while but has now gone back to her old ways.
I constatnly feel as though my company isn't good enough for her. I reckon she wants to seem popular just to annoy me and make me jealous. It's working. Not for long though. Time to dump the bitch.
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reader, digger11  +, writes (23 March 2009):
why do guys put up with this?
don't sit there with a goofy smile when she does this,
be a man and stand up for yourself, don't be a doormat, tell her you don't like it, and if she wants to sit there texting other guys while you are together, she'll have all the time in the world to do so since you'll be leaving her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): You may be pleased to know that I am in almost the exact same situation. Basically, you cant stop her texting other guys, so dont try and tell her what to do. tell her what she does and how it makes you feel. Then ask her what she thinks about it. If she is unwilling to change then its time for another break! If the relationship is really worth it she will come back to you. either that or just keep it casual; if she isn't prepared to 'commit' in this way then mabye you arent prepared to have a relationship on the same level? because by caring about her so much you are making yourself vulnerable to her actions...by the way no two relationships are the same soooo remember advice is advice...good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): GOOD QUESTION!?! That would be very upsetting to me as well! But it sounds like something you should be asking her! I think she is taking you for granted! How would she feel if you were texting other women? You need to talk to her about all these things! You may want to move on to someone who appreciates you more! And theres also the matter of respect! It's extremely disrespectful, in my opinion!
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