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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was with my ex boyfriend for a year. We were very very much in love. None of us had ever been this in love before. There was a lot of physical attraction there. He was very romantic and did lots for me and vice versa. I thought we were going to get married.However we used to argue over my insecurity, I used to get insanely jealous over stupid things. He finished with me in April and I was devestated. He said at the time 'I can't be with you because you need too much attention and I need to concentrate on my degree. In six months I will realise that it is either the best or worst decision I ever made'I was so upset. I didn't think I would cope. I met another guy a week after and now I'm still going out with him now. I love him very much. I haven't seen my ex since he finished with me 9 months ago. However I bumped into him the other day kissing another girl. It really really upset me. This girl wasn't that pretty but I know she's a really nice girl and she's really intelligent. I just wondered why this still upsets me after 9 months???Do you think that even though my ex finished with me, he would have been upset that I got into a relationship so quickly (he would have seen photos and things on facebook, me and my boyfriend went away for the whole summer together) and do you think he remembers the relationship that we had in a really negative light?? We had some such amazing times and had so much love for each other but it was my insecurity that split us up.I wouldn't want him to remember the only bad things about me. I hope that this doesn't sound shallow. I do love my boyfriend of now very much, I just want to add.x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): i think u made a bad choice 2 get a new guy just afta 1 week from yo ex.
perhaps u shld have first discovered the root of insecurity.thats a character that can be neutralized if a boyfriend really loves u.thx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): find his number ... ask him about it....you dont seem to have much to lose with him and already have a bf that you love so why not just ask?
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