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30-35,
*olden 0ne
writes:i just wanna ask for some peoples ad vise here, as im completley confuesed :$i know this guy for along time but we only started talking this year through mutual friends, and i always though there was somethin about him, i didnt even think he cared who i was untill out of the blue we just started flirtin and he stayed at mine one day and we ended up kissing in the bed...i thought it was just a one of thing but he came round more often but when we're around our friends we act just normal so them then i started visiting him at his and hav been for 4-5months now! but i think he likes me by his actions and how we cuddle all the time and kiss soo long an pasionatley ever time i see him. but everytime i let him kno how i feel he just aires me i tell him that i like him alot and i wanna kno what he thinks and al he can say is "what do u mean what would you like me to say" or "ill get back to u on that one" im sooo frustrated as i reaaly reaaly like him alot and we still contiuin to see each other now...what do you lot think???
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reader, golden 0ne +, writes (25 November 2008):
golden 0ne is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your help i understand now i do seem to make him a bit uncomfortable when it comes to that talk.
thankyou very useful!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): It sounds like you make him uncomfortable by saying all the lovy-dovy things to him. There is no reason to be frustrated. Guys are not created as we girls. They have a hard time express their feelings, especially in young age.
IT DOESN'T MEAN HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. He just doesn't know how to express it yet. I live with my husband for a long time now. It took him good ten years to tell me "I love you."
You know how he proposed to me? He said:'I told my mother that I am marrying you" I laughed, and married the guy.
My advice is not to preoccupy yourself with this issue, concentrate on good stuff, like cuddling, passionate kissing, talking. But no more love talk. Sometimes men are very awkward when it comes to words.
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