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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey people I'm just wondering why my boyfriend is soo demanding... i know it sounds weird but my boyfriend kinda changed me in many ways that I didn't even relise how much I was changing...I gave up a lot for him as in i was planning to save my virgintiy for my husband but ended up giving it to him, dont get me wrong i dont regret it coz i love him but looking bk i think shit ive changed so much.. also i lost over 2 stones in weight to make him more attracted to me as he used to think i was fairly big...Is he really imposing his views on me and making me change my view on certain things or am i just being soo naive and changin for no reason?in a way im scared that if i gain alil weight again he will leave me... he reassured me he wont but he said that he would tell me if i get out of shape and stuff... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): Well then every time you are given a decision, you have to think to yourself 'what would I have done before we were together?' Don't let him change you if you don't want to be changed. I mean we are all influenced by other people, but you should change by learning from other people, and not just thinking 'I'll just agree with him.'
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