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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

If we were to break up I have nowhere to go. Advice needed please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - im with my girlfreind nearly 7 yrs, we're living together and have a 2 yr old daughter i proposed to her on her 21st birthday yr and half ago but since then we'v been fighting a lot and the sex went from occasionally to none. im only 21 and have ...

Does a life threatening illness affect your decision to enter into a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have met a really lovely guy. We have only had two dates so far but they have both been amazing. However before our dates I found out he has a few girls on the scene that he calls just for sex. He knew I knew about it so the conversation came up. ...

In love with my principal...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am in high school and I'm in love with my principal. Over the past summer i started messaging him on fbook and after about 2 months of no replys i decided to tell him how i really felt. So the messages went from "hey hows it goin?" to "I Love ...

Does the army change people???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i have been in this relationship for over 2 years and my boyfriend is now in the army, we both talked about it and thought it would be a good thing to do. now that he is in the military, i feel neglected and he is not the same person he was before ...

Is there recovery from cybersex/emotional infidelity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I recently found out about one of my boyfriend's cyber sex partners while we were vacationing together. I was using his computer to email my family when a woman named Rachael popped up on his skype to talk to him. I told she was asking for him and ...

Trust and loyalty towards family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My daughter was married for 2 years. Overnight she turned into a quiet, withdrawn person. Talking to her, supporting her didnt draw her out of her shell. During the 2 years we (family/close friends) noticed that things between her and her husband ...

I cant accept his religion, but I cant be without him either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - hey..im really confused and stressed out lately. i m in this relationship for 5 yrs. well i love him so much.. and he does too. but there is a religion difference between us..i mean its okay with me of being different, but he want me to convert to ...

He already has a child and doesn't seem to want another, but he is the love of my life...What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i am 30 years old and have never been married and never had a child, my boyfriend whom i love more than anything, has been married and has a child with his ex wife. i know in my heart that i want to get married and have a child someday. on the very ...

Am I crazy for staying?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - My wife and I share 2 gorgeous children and we are coming up to 12 faithful years together. Over the past fortnight she has revealed to me that she has fallen for a female work colleague. My wife has had a very sordid past with many men and women. I ...

My husband likes his bum licked, is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi guys this is rather a funny question but it has been puzzling me for a while now. My husband likes me to lick his bottom whilst he masturbates lol!. I know it sounds funny and i have no problems doing this but is it normal? He has a bit of an ...

The grass wasn't greener on the other side.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I want to work things out with my flame but I don't know how to cope with possible rejection. How should I go about. Keep in mind I crapped on her. Bailed out on her for another woman which flopped because my heart wasn't into her. It's been 2 ...

What is the secret to being happy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a question I'd appreciate your honest answer to. How many of you are truly happy in your lives? If so, what are your lives like and what's most important to you? What do you think the secret is to being HAPPY? How...

Which one is better? To love or be loved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My bf is an egoist person. He always asks me to stay online 24 hours for him. And always said that i must reply his chats. If i late reply 1 or 2 mins, he will get angry. He never allows me to attend someone's call when i chat with him. While he...

He wants to give us another try but I don't feel anything for him anymore! Should I work at getting the feelings back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Ok this is a long shot so here it is. My exbf broke it off with me and I took it hard. I cool now and guess what? He's pressuring me to give it another try. Ok so here's the deal. I'm tolerating him and I'm bored. I've lost every feeling of love ...

I want to get to know this guy better, but I cant leave my boyfriend because of his threats each time I try! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Please help, I don't know what to do. This is a long story and very confusing too. I'm in a relationship for 6 years, on and off. When i said on and off, I meant, i was looking a better different bf. However, my current bf and I fight all the time. ...

Should I chase her and get her back?..... I need an outside perspective!

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31 January 2011 (M) - I need some outside help in would greatly appreciated it. There is this girl that i dated 3 years back, but I have always kept in contact with her over the years. And now she is gone. i don't know if i should go chase something im not defiantl...

Should I confront this crazy coworker and tell her to stop stalking my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I discovered that one of my husbands much younger employees was sending him "I love you type" text messages. When I confronted him, he told me I misunderstood the context. He says the girl admitted to him that she was contemplating suicide and he ...

I get mad each time he goes to visit his son at his ex's house!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I'm living with my boyfriend for more than two years now, we have a 6 mos old son and he has another 3 year old son from his ex also. everytime he visits him i always get mad. i know i should not to but i just cant stop thinking that his going to ...

I rejected him twice, now we're friends with benefits...and while I want a commitment, there's nothing from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone:) Thanks in advance for reading this. I am dating this guy sort of, it has been 6 months about. He really pursued me hard, and I had let him know that I was not looking for a bf. I had been through a lot and didn't feel I was in the ...

I feel really betrayed that he'd get over me while we were in a relationship, talk to this girl who was his "friend" behind my back and then breakup with me after I tried really hard to change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK before i start i want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my question. Ok my boyfriend for 10 months recently dumped me about a month ago. He said i was too controlling and i didnt trust him. Before this huge breakup i dumped h...

I've got a whole lot of perversions and moral failings that I'd like to disclose to the girl I'd probably get involved with. How do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hello World, I've got a question that I think I already know the answer to, but would like some reassurance with all the same (or other answers if any). It's about a woman I've been getting close to (in a strictly non-GF/BF way), and would like g...

How do I cope with panic attacks when giving presentations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - well this isn't a relationship question but i do need advice, and not many people really take it seriously basically im 15 and in highschool, and my problem is that i sruggle with giving oral presentations, really struggle, a couple of weeks ...

Is alcohol really a deal breaker in a relationship or am I making too big a deal out of it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years now...we were friends for much longer. While everything is fine with us, and there is no "relationship" problem, the only thing that bothers me about him is alcohol. Its not that he's an alcoholic or any...

Advice on dealing with my teenage daughter?

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31 January 2011 (M) - my 16yo daughter took up with some pentacostal revivalists who kept on pressuring her to increase the commitment. after a few months she broke away and became friendly with a lesbian girl and developed a relationship. the girl and her friends showed ...

He left me to have a good time with his ex, and now that she's out, he wants me back again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've had many trust issues with my boyfriend. Most with his ex girlfriend. Many issues in general, including: When they first broke up he started talking to me a couple weeks after.. then we started 'talking'. Before I left for Mexico in the summ...

Changed so much with trying to accommodate the men in my life, I don't even know who I am anymore...

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30 January 2011 (F) - I've been in 2 serious relationships one after another for the last ast 4 years. I've been single for about a week now and I don't know who I am anymore. I've changed to accomadate these men and now I feel like I've depended on them so much I lost ...

Is there any way to make him pay maintenance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - hi can anyone give me advice 25 yr ago i had an affair which i became pregnant my daughter is now 25 years old out of the blue after 25 years he wanted a parternity test which was positive (which i knew it would be) but since then he has not ...

16, in love, and ready to have a baby. Need advice, opinions, and feedback!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I'm 16 years old and want a baby. Ok so I'm 16, turn 17 in 10 months, I finish high school in just under 5 months and have already achieved good grades so far. My boyfriend is the exact same except he is 2 months older then me. We have been tog...

My boyfriend has anger issues, but I don't want him to leave. Will he ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really dont know what to do anymore! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 6 month old son. He works nights and I look after our son. He gets really naggy over the slightest thing and will shout, swear, and punch the walls....

3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...

At what point in a relationship can one justify using the word 'love'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Hello, a very misleadingly simple question... at what point in a relationship can one justify using 'love' as opposed to the elements of infatuation to describe the mutual feelings between the two involved? As a mere teen-ager, I find the often-used ...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

Should I wait for the relationship that might not happen or just go for it and see how far it could go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Im single and so he is. It's always been more than just friends, we 'sext' all the time. He wants us to have sex but doesn't like talking about a relationship. He's not a virgin but i am. Should i wait for the relationship that might not happen or ...

Should I propose to her, or am I making a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - I've known and have been sleeping with my girlfriend for 2 years besides a several month period where she changed her number and took me out of her life. Here's the deal and I am trying to get to the bottom of this and it isn't easy...we have h...

The eternal triangle strikes again. How can I solve it amicably guys?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I'm 17 and for the past year I've become best friends with a group of guys.(I have girlfriends too but I prefer hanging with guys tbh). I love them to pieces. For the past month or so me and one of the guys, Z, have developed feel...

I love my hometown so much I do not want to leave it, but there's no career opportunities for me here. Is it silly to stay even though?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi there, I'm in my late twenties and I value my lifestyle possibly too much. I live in a small city that, to me, has everything. We're five minutes away from several beaches, forrests, tramping and hiking spots and one of the most beautiful na...

My boyfriends parents do not accept our relationship, and I am engaged to someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - (Moderator note: please note the nationality of the question-asker before answering) I have a boyfriend. I love him alot, but his parents torture me and are abusing me. They hate me but my bf loves me alot and I also love him But his parents do n...

Will my girlfriend get used to my large penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend finds it painful being on top since my penis is so large. But I love it when she is. Also sometimes afterwards she feels pains in her uterus. Are these pains normal? And is it best to just get used to her not being on top, or shoul...

I lack a lot of confidence and am always so worried about never finding someone special?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - This may sound immature for someone my age, but anyway, I'm 21 years old and am in my second year of the nursing program. I'm involved in a sorority and am busy most of the time with everything in my life and it may appear as though I'm content. But ...

Second thoughts about my relationship...why???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - hi im having second thoughts in my current relationship. we have been together for 2 years and still counting. he always showers me love and care and we are constant on the phone as we are staying in different states.i know i love him with much ...

Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...

3 guys like me all at the same time...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Okay...Well, not sure who to start with but I know this love square thing was not supposed to happen. There is this guy who ive been talking to for a year and we have tons in common but I just have not come to like him more than a friend and he is ...

What's it like moving school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - What's it like moving school? Like is it hard to fit in cause everybody has already got their friends. I'm having alot of problems at my school atm cause this rumour is going round bout me doing stuff with this guy and everybody thinks its true ...

Is my wife still sexually attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 13 years, and I love her with all of my heart. I'm more attracked to her now than when we first got married. However, I don't think that she's all that attracked to me anymore. Our sex life sucks. I want it al...

Which states perform legal lesbian marriages? And is the marriage upheld if we re-locate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Does anyone know what states perform lesbian marriages, and if the marriage is still considered legal, if the married lesbian couple relocates to a state that doesn't uphold lesbian marriage? My girlfriend proposed to me yesterday, just ...

How important is the ring?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - She said "If I got an engagement ring I didn't like,or was to small I would return it and buy something I really liked." Part of me laughs at this the other part is scared out of my mind. Who would say something like that, I thought engagment was ...

Are love and marriage a deadline?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Does anyone else think women now a days are more in love with the idea of "love" and "marriage" then they are with the true meaning behind it. I keep meeting more and more women who talk about marriage like a dead line rather then the importance of ...

Shall I continue and pursue things with my love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - hi everyone, i am female, in love. my last relationship was 3 years ago and it was awfully devastating as he left me after our wedding plans and everything was set, now i am inlove with a guy- who happened to be in an open relationship with a girl ...

How can I tell my mistress to get an abortion... NOW!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Hi. Just seeking some advice. I have been married for 7 yrs been with wife for almost 15. she's older than me by a couple of years (I am 37 my wife is 43 and my lover is 35). , but I think she is my soul mate. I cheated on her before this time, but ...

A third chance... or a third mistake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Hi folks, firstly let me attempt to generate a picture of my current relationship... I have been in a very tight relationship with a caring girl for the past 6 years, and I have made sure that I have spent most of my time attempting to pr...