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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I make him choose between drugs and me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Wow, so I don't really know where to start. This may be longer than I expect, so I apologise in advance. I started dating this guy not long ago, he is older than me, which is fine, age to me has never been a barrier. But is it not strange how things ...

How can I get through to my sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I need advice on something. My mother has been fighting cancer for 4 years now. Recently it went to her brain and before that had spread throughout most her body. The chance of survival is quite slim. Currently she cannot drive or do a lot of stuff. ...

We hit it off and now she's cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hi Guys Small problem. I got to know a girl at dancing lessons and we got to get friendly there. As the lessons progressed, we got to know each other and had long sessions chatting afterward. We also went to a restaurant after last week's lesson a...

Why am I so angry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I just need some kind of advice..or i feel all this will get too far and destroy my family relationship. Im a 16 year old girl, eversince i met my boyfriend, i seem to blow up easily at my family. First it started with my brother, he dislikes my ...

I'm so in love with you, but I have days when I'm not sure... So he says!

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25 January 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend the other night, after I had a dream that he was all over someone else. We dated for 6 months and he was a good person. We went on trips together and we had our fights, but after we broke up in November for 24 hours, ...

Why did you even ask?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - What brought you to Dear Cupid? Most likely it's because of some problem in your life or relationship. That's how most of us stumbled upon this place. You came here hoping that these anon people on the internet could offer you some insight into ...

I feel more comfortable talking to my dad, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Is it bad if i can't tell my mom anything? Like i live with my mom but not my dad, and I barely see him and i feel more comfortable talking to him about stuff but i don't feel comfortable talking to my mom about stuff. is that a problem? ...

How do you move on from past relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - This might be a stupid question, but: how do you stop feeling bothered about stuff from the past? When I think of my relationship with my ex-boyfriend [who broke up with me months ago], I still feel bothered by things.. I won't bore everyone with ...

Is it wrong for me to date other races?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Hey peeps, Is it wrong for me to date other races?? I'm black and my friends always talkin about sticking to our own culture but I find white and chinese boys SERIOUSLY attractive :s. I also want to know if dating other cultures last long ...

He's coming across as too strong...how do I call it quits??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - This guy, who's a friend but not a really close one, asked me out a couple of months ago, and I said I'd give it a try. I meant that I'd be open to like going out a few times, like for coffee, just to get to know more about each other and stuff. ...

How wet is too wet? My arousal is turning into a nightmare for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I find myself getting really wet several times each day. Most of the time it happens if I’m day-dreaming about having sex or being intimate with a guy. At first I enjoyed feeling aroused and wet all the time but now it’s turned into a nightmare. ...

Should I leave my abusive marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I need advice as to whether it is a good decision to leave my marriage: i have been married for 6+ years and on my first year my hubby hit me and again on the second year with no apology on both cases and even now when we talk about the issue i ...

Why am I so down on myself about these things? Is it the Cannabis that is making me paranoid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Morning to you all I need some objective advice. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. I love him very much. We do "clash" sometimes because we both hold strong opinions on things and are equally quick tempered. Well, here's the ot...

I feel like my mom's death was my fault......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - my life is crazy, no-one seems to understand me either, my boyfriend thinks im a liar and my family wont see things in my point of view. i lost my mom 4 years ago and cant seem to let go. is that normal? id like to say nothing is wrong with me and ...

I dumped him for another man but I am so hurt he slept with another girl while we were apart! How do I get over this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - so... not long ago i had a boyfriend(let's call him alex). we had been together for like 1 year and 10 months. things started to get really routinaire and i asked him for a break. he said yes but then i met this other guy (daniel) and we started ...

Boyfriend says he cant promise he will ever love me, is there reason to stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - So here's my story. I am in the active duty military at my first duty station, a week after getting here I start hooking up with this really cute guy that I developed a crush for in my platoon. Well the hooking up became into something more and we ...

Why does he look at porn when he still thinks I am beautiful and we have great sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - We all know about the ups and downs in a marriage.But my husband and me managed to really deeply fall in love again for the last two years. Married for 17 years and two kids. We have lots of wonderfull fullfilling sex.I love and appreciate him. So I ...

Obsessed with the past.......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - I found out my girlfriend flashed a guy, aka her best friend over skype a few days before we got together, after he flashed her and begged her to flash him. 3 months later, it's still popping into my head randomly and causing me to have emotional ...

How do you forgive yourself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - How do you come to grips with regret and guilt? say you had the love of your life, and you knew it, but you were either immature, ignorant, or just not wired to be a good partner at the time, and after being with many other people, trying out many ...

18 year old dating a 15 year old - would he get into trouble with the law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - If some was 15 almost 16 and their boyfriend was 18 and their parents said that it was ok, would he get into trouble with the law?...

My fiancee doesn't want to make love any more and its tearing me apart.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - I have been with my Fiancee for 2 years and love her with all my heart but it seems like she just doesnt wanna sleep with me anymore. Before we moved in together the passion was strong and chemistry couldnt be contained. we used to make love at ...

How do you deal with bad housemates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - my housemates particarly one lets call her sue does not like me i get higher grades then her and the fact that i dont do what she wants i think bothers her. lets call them c1 (major annoyance) c2 (sheep) c1 went into my room switched something ...

I just want to stay friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - my close friend is ver sexy and I think that she is trying to seducing me . she has big boobs and when we are alone (studying...) she always try to show me her boobs by bending over without reasons or wearing low cut clothes(sometimes I see her ...