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Archived questions from: 7 January, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What does he mean? And were we flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - A lad I know from school texted me saying 'what would you say if I liked you' I don't know whether to take this as: 'he likes me' or what? But i replied saying 'that i think you're quite cute and i don't know what i'd say' but I was talking to him ...

Is my friend just more mature or odd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - My friends and I noticed that she's changed - She used to be really hyper around those she was close to, and she was really shy. Now we have noticed that she is really confident, to what she was before but, she still is a little bit quiet. She's a ...

He asked me to text him, not email him. Would his GF think it was cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - in january 2010 i broke up with my ex and it ended on bad terms (he cheated on me with his ex). since then we have both seen other people and got on with our lives since then and have had no contact until recently. he randomly sent me an email to...

Why can't I fully get over my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (M) - Why can't I fully get over my ex? I personally feel deep inside that she is the one, or at least who she was to me was the one. Like for me the way my ex is now, drinking, partying and even doing other stuff has really turned me off from her. But if ...

Can waiting until marriage for sex allow us to build better relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

7 January 2011 (M) - I had a recent experience with a girl who is a "player". She is very beautiful and always attracts men. She toys with them, encourages them with flirtatious words, all the time saying they are not her type, even as they get their hopes up. I, ...

I don't want kids but my husband does......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - my husband and i have been married for 5 years and we've been together for a total of 10 years.We've made it this far and relationship has been great in every way except that since the last 1 year he has been telling me that he is interested in ...

Every time I start to get over her past, something new pops up!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (M) - I have been in a relationship for aprox 10 months and I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriends past. When we first started dating one time after sex we were lying in bed and she started in on the "what's the craziest sexual thing you have ...

Since we got engaged he is getting more and more mean, and refuses to seek help for his anger problems. Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been dating my guy for two and a half years. We got engaged around our two year anniversary and have set a wedding date. Since the moment we have gotten engaged he has been progressively more mean. We have had fights before, he would...

I don't like women in any way but I watch lesbian porn. What does this mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - im 110% straight. but i watch lesbian porn. i dont like women in that way just the porn. what does this mean??...

Is it a good idea to 'replace' my ex so I can get over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - I'm really struggling with what to do if anyone could help? I've recently broken up with my boyfriend of 4 years, i grew up with him so its really hard on me and i miss him like mad. its torture living without him :( the type of person i am is i...

Will the pain of this break up ever go away? Will I ever be able to smile and laugh again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - My bf and I broke up 2 months ago and I'm completely lost. We broke up because he had stuff to do ( he's in a band and said he didn't have time to treat me like i should be treated) and I wanted to travel. He never wanted to really do the things I ...

My husband has lots of female friends and ex lovers whom he is in touch with...and it makes me very uncomfortable

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - My husband is a very popular man and has lots of female friends and ex lovers. I knew all about these women before I married him but since then have begun to hate his contact with these people especially his ex flames. He says that I am insecure and ...

How can you be in a relationship without someone getting hurt? Or is this just part of the deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - i've only been with two people. the first one last fall...well, i met him online and we hung out a few times and i wasn't even interested in him... i liked him in a friendly way - he was fun and funny company - but i knew in my heart that i was only ...

I can't love my boyfriend at the moment because I don't make enough money right now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5059 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Yeah, about a month ago I became self employed, so I am going to struggle financially at first, and it will take me time to get very well known. I run my own tattoo parlor. I'm at the pivotal moment at struggling to meet all my overhead. I cannot ...

I am only really attracted to guys, but I know I want to get married and have children! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (M) - Hi, My problem is a bit convoluted, and I'm so conflicted over it that I just had to 'talk' to someone, but not anyone I knew. So I've known for some years now that I might like guys (I'm a guy) and the usual things that happen when one does...

Are these signs your boyfriend loves you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Is these signs your boyfriend really loves you? 1.says he loves you all the time 2.kisses your hand,neck,lips 3.holds you really close and tight 4.spends time with you whenever he can even if its just coming over and cuddling and falling a sleep...

Would any men be weirded out that their girlfriend donated her eggs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - I've been considering donating my eggs and have been "preliminarily accepted," meaning that I've filled out my application and sent pictures; and now they want to interview me face-to-face. While I've considered all aspects of it and now that I'm ...

He wants children but has said he would rather have our relationship without kids than no relationship at all. Will this cause problems in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Hi I am at a crisis point with my boyfriend. I am 38 (very soon 39) and he is 34. I have never been particularly interested in having children - not like many women who feel the desire to be a mother very strongly. I have been seeing my boyfriend ...

How much is too much when it comes to complimenting girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

7 January 2011 (M) - I've had two very serious relationships in my life (they lasted one and five years respectively, and I was going to move in with the last one) and I see a common pattern between them. Okay, two relationships may not be statistically significant, but ...

I want to keep my baby but I'm scared of how my family will react....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Hi im 16 years old and im pregant i've been pregnant before but i had an abortion..i want to keep my baby but im very scared of how my family will react im specailly scared of how my older brother will react because he has has always been "the man ...

My BF, my daughter, my secret lover, his pregnant wife...my life is a mess of lies and I'm miserable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years. We were just kids when we got together. Our relationship has had it's ups and downs and for a while my boyfriend treated me like complete garbage. We ended up splitting up for a few months. When we got ...

Why is sex so easy and emotionless for some guys??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - I started to fall for my fwb, and when I told him, he said ok we should stop. I cried a bit and he said sorry but he just doesn't see us as anything more than friends. I have begrudgingly accepted this...it is very hard to get over him, because we ...

Age difference....just numbers??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Do you guys think age is just a numbering am extremely attracted to a 38 year old and I am 24...

I need advice forgetting a guy who broke my heart. Please help me!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5059 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Hi, mine is a case of deeply broken heart. I think I'm finished with a guy I had a long distance relationship with for 4 years. I developed feelings for him since I met him in person in a business meeting. I don't know why I missed him dearly, but ...