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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Meeting online friend of 7 years for the first time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - This might be a little long so i apologize for that in advance:) So i have a friend i've known for several years. Met him on a social networking site and we pretty much hit it off from day one. He's from another country - I'm in the U.S and he l...

What should I say or do to help him not be teased and to understand him more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - this guy at school acts like a girl and he dresses like a guy . people teases him and call him gay but i dont think they should. i dont know how to approach him asking is he gay or not and might offend him. i personally think he just enjoy acting ...

I don't care for this man but I want to be there for my mom.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, Well the problem I need help here with is that my step dad is going in to hospital on Monday to have his leg amputated and the thing is I'm just not sympathetic at all! I wouldn't wish it on anybody but he was told numerous amount ...

Every time I check her emails it is a bad surprise...so how can I trust her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - OK, weird situation here. I have a friend who is a girl and I am a guy (last time I checked hahaha). Anyway, don't ask how, but I figured out how to check her email. Yeah I know it's low. But the reason I did it is because I wanted to see what kind ...

Why has she kept my number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - i met a girl at college and she seemed to be giving me signals of interest. anyway, we eventually exchanged numbers and began flirting and texting until almost 2am on college night (something i wouldnt expect friends to do on a college night). her ...

Should I like this mentally challenged girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - [Mod Note: It would be very helpful if you could state your age and how old this girl is. This will help you to get better answers] There is this girl(of age 21) who is a couple of years younger than me(i'm 23). She is mentally challenged. She ...

7 years of marriage have gone by but I'm still not in love with her! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - my question is you been dating a little while, the person you had been dating and wants to be marry and wants to start a family soon because she older and her parents are getting old 70 you like her but she puting pressure on you . you get married ...

Should I forge ahead with my psychologist career, and ignore my heart? Or chase my dream of being an actress?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I don't have a relationship question, it's more of a life question. But I read this site everyday, and people seem to be very helpful. I need some advice. I am 18 and in my first year of college. This is normally when people figure out what the...

I don't want to go to my husband's father's funeral because the women he had an affair with will be there, is this wrong?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - My husband has been having an affair with a friend of his family. This has been going on for a while and although my husband is sorry I am still trying to come to terms with it. This lady is well liked by his family and I have never met her. My ...

She is having trouble connecting to me after the death of a parent, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - First time post here, a bit nervous. You know how there are always two sides to a story, right? I am trying my best to keep this non-biased. I really need help. I met my wife when I was 17, she was 16. It is now 20 years later. We never...

I feel like my infertility is hindering his happiness....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I am aged 31 and have been married for 3 years. I have had an admired relationship with a faithful husband who has always been on my side and supported me. By the time of our marriage, my husband had a 4 year old son who we have happily lived with ...

Why don't I enjoy anything sexual? How can I enjoy sex ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I am 19 and only lost my virginity a month ago. Since then, I have had sex with my boyfriend twice, both times very uncomfortable and don't feel anything unless it is pain. I know this is quite common after you lose your virginity, to be painful ...

Am I a terrible person to behave this way when I should be giving support?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Am i a terrible person to behave this way when i should be giving support? My partner and i have been having this on off relationship for sometime now, he has moved out. The thing is we have 2 kids, my youngest is 2 and when he was a baby, about ...

How do I know there are no other secrets and if I can ever trust him again??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - He doesn't respect me enough to tell me about things when I told him everything about me and has lied to me. He wouldn't talk about his past, only the good things that happened and they were far and few in between. He knows my past, my present, ...

Will she / Wont she??? And should I take the leap or wait??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - Hey guys, there is this girl i met, we spend a lot of time together. It was really romantic, we kept kissing and we sat next eachother holding hands. She came from bad relationships i knew this but i kinda rushed it.. so she took a bit distance. ...

Why is he looking at porn when he has an available, willing wife in his bed??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - My husband and I are both in our twenties and have only been married a few months. We're expecting our first child and ever since we've been together I've always been very sexual with him. Since I've been pregnant, my sex drive has doubled and Ive ...

I left my wife for another woman but she chose to get married, what do I do next?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - This is a story about doing everything wrong....it is a story about two people and their partners. One of those people had a new marriage which is now at an end. The other was engaged and is now married. The story begins at the place where I wo...

Why did I treat her so badly when I loved her so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - I revently lost my partner who after 5 years went on a trip to Europe and broke up with me by email 2 days before she got back. She'd just turned 25, and I just turned 34. For the last few years I had been a pretty crap boyfriend. I wa...

I love you? versus I'm in love with you...hmmm

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I was wondering, my soon to be hubby says "I love you" and I love him too, but is there a difference between saying "I love you" versus "I'm in love with you"? Don't get me wrong, but we both love each other, however, I was told by a gf tha...

How can I make him see that I'm sick and tired of being treated this way, and I've had enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hello thanks in advance Well to start this off, I've been with my bf for 2.5 years. He's a contolling person, which I didn't really notice until we moved in together. He has to have his way most of the time. He's taken me out maybe 5 times ...

Should I tell him that I have feelings for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Okay so me and my best friend of 3 years messed around and i feel like my feelings for him have sky rocketed but he still acts the same like if nothing changed for him! He'll be like hey bestie and its just weird for me now, I don't regret messing ...