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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Is this guy stalking me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Last year I attended a boarding school, and there was a hockey player who was obsessed with me. He had a girlfriend, so never conversed with me, except the first day of school. Incidents that took place last year were , showing up where I was m...

Masculine straight guy who likes cross dressing -- any women for whom this isn't a deal breaker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Okay so I've posted here before but this one is too sensitive to a question so I'm going anonymous with my question. Thing is I am a strait male. I'm sure of this as men don't turn me on I've tried and nope its a turn off actually. Now here is the ...

Why was I played after everything that I did??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - ive liked this guy intensely for ages and tonight i was speaking with two of my good friends and they confirmed what i suspected for a while-that ive been played. i cant describe how hurt i am. i really cared for him and he knew it.but he was new at ...

Most of the guys who ask me out or flirt with me just make me feel sick; but when I am with a guy who doesn't saying anything about getting together I'm just fine. Help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Okay, this kinda makes me feel silly but, I am 21 years old and I have never been in a serious relationship. I really just never put a lot of thought into it in high school; though I basically had majority male friends. Now that I have been in ...

Am I just a friend with benefits or are we moving slowly towards a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I started hanging out with a guy I know. I love spending time with him. I would love very much to be in a relationship with him. I thought that was the way he was headed too. After hanging out for a while we slept together. We text every day (or at ...

Am I being realistic, or will finding the right guy always be a fantasy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I m in my early 30s, and at this point of my life i m more than ready to start a family. I m doing a lot of dating, but most of the guys that i meet are not financially stable. I feel bad at times to base my choice on their financial situatio...

How do I get my Dad to sort out his will?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - My father has not made a will and it will leave very big consequences. He says he will simply pass everything to my Mum. This is fine butt he has not put in place any plan to pass his inhertance tax allowance for her use so that means that ...

Should I continue texting him? Or should I forget my crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - i am a nurse and i have a crush in the same hospital i work. almost all nurses who knows me in the hospital knows i have a crush on him. at first, he kept smiling at me whenever he sees me. one night, i was so surprised when he texted me,.. he told ...

He's dragging his feet about commitment.Am I too clingy? And should I allow this relationship to continue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy on and off for a while now. We started off being friends. I do not know what I can do to show him I will be a good girlfriend. He definitely cares for me but is dragging his feet when it comes to commiting to me. He ...

When poverty comes to a man's life, why does the woman slip away through the window?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - when poverty comes to a man life why do woman slip away though the window. Y? ...

Is it possible for a woman to cry on demand?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Hi, Last year I was in a relationship with a woman who in retrospect I feel was manipulating me. She had asked me for a lot of money and I gave it to her over the course of the year, without getting anything back. (We were not even dating.) But I fo...

My brother doesn't support my choice of a wife, he wants me to marry his wife's sister!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Hello everybody, i'm 28 yrs old in love with my GF For 5yrs, she is the one i'm planning to marry very soon. My major problem is that, my elder brother who took care of my studies when i was in d university is not in d support to marry her. Now i'm ...

She cheated and I forgave her. Now she's doing it again. How do I deal with it?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Hello, a year ago my gfriend cheated on me. We broke up for a short period then I forgave her. A year later, now, I discover she is still chatting online with the guy she cheated with. Frankly I want to dump her. It took me some stomach to take her...

I hate being rejected. She's not as interested as before. Our LDR is deteriorating. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Hello, I've been dating my highschool sweetheart for the past going on three years of college. She is about an hour away at a different college, however hopefully transferring here. Im truly in love with this girl and I would like to spend the rest...

He's apologized for his remark, but I'm feeling broken and lost inside. He means so much to me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I don't know what's wrong with me now. There was a misunderstanding between my boyfriend and me. He thought I was talking bad about his friends and said something to me that made me feel less important. I love him so much but I feel as if I don't ...

I'm scared I might have hurt her when I chickened out of going further. I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Ok, so i'm 15 and my girlfriend and I are talking about sex. But i'm scared to because i might hurt her. we've reached really close to having sex, but i chickened out. I told her this reason and she keeps saying it'll be ok... i don't know what to ...

I'm not ready yet. But I seek your guidance on how to initiate sex for the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Okay.. Please don't be mean with answers to this. I'm not planning to make an instant decision here. To start off, I'm 19. I am a virgin, by choice. I've had a lot of chances of "Losing it", but I didn't want to until I was ready, and with someone ...

He's trying to change me on so many levels. When will these changes be 'enough' for him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Hi, i really need some advice!! Iv been with my boyfriend for almost a year. Im 22, he's nearly 30 and he's a christian. Iv never felt like this about anyone before and i really really love him. When we first met everything was great! He was just as ...