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writes:Okay...Well, not sure who to start with but I know this love square thing was not supposed to happen. There is this guy who ive been talking to for a year and we have tons in common but I just have not come to like him more than a friend and he is waiting for me to change my mind. Then another guy who i went on a date with last night because I couldn't just say no but I don't know if I like him more than a friend or not.Then...there's my ex who had come back into my life out of no where and i still have feelings for him but I don't want to get my heart broken again. He swears it will not happen again but you can't make promises like that when you don't know the future. I don't know what to do and I don't want to hurt anyone. I just want to live life and they all want to get settled. Why did they have to tell me at the same time that they liked me...What should I do about each guy?? :(
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 January 2011):
Cut the first guy loose, since it's not fair to keep him around hoping that you're going to change your mind.
Move on from the ex. Chances are if he broke your heart the first time, then he'll do it again.
Give the second guy a chance. You just went out on a date with him last night! Feelings aren't going to form like that, if you had a good time and do like him then go out with him on a second date.
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Politely reject all 3 and live your life for you right now.
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