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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi im having second thoughts in my current relationship. we have been together for 2 years and still counting. he always showers me love and care and we are constant on the phone as we are staying in different states.i know i love him with much dearie but lately im feeling shiver struck thinking am i making the right decision of accepting him to be my life partner. we have shared everything together whether it is emotionally or mentally we are like soulmates. when he wants to make the next step in our relationship, i shrugged totally. a lot of things is spinning in my head. what is wrong with me? i know how much he loves me and i do too.
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reader, RayBones  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 Is he your first boyfriend? Are you too good for him?
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reader, dannn  +, writes (30 January 2011):
The second thoughts don't seem to have anything with the current situation, or do they? As much as I'm horrible at taking this advice myself, I'd have to say not to look to far into the future, if you love him now that's great! And if he's an amazing guy even better! But when you start looking to far into the future it just starts to look extremely bland, uneventful, and scary. See how things progress and if things come up deal with them appropriately, but I think it's very normal to have second thoughts. "Go with the flow"
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