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Archived questions from: 31 January, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

If we were to break up I have nowhere to go. Advice needed please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - im with my girlfreind nearly 7 yrs, we're living together and have a 2 yr old daughter i proposed to her on her 21st birthday yr and half ago but since then we'v been fighting a lot and the sex went from occasionally to none. im only 21 and have ...

Does a life threatening illness affect your decision to enter into a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have met a really lovely guy. We have only had two dates so far but they have both been amazing. However before our dates I found out he has a few girls on the scene that he calls just for sex. He knew I knew about it so the conversation came up. ...

In love with my principal...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am in high school and I'm in love with my principal. Over the past summer i started messaging him on fbook and after about 2 months of no replys i decided to tell him how i really felt. So the messages went from "hey hows it goin?" to "I Love ...

Does the army change people???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i have been in this relationship for over 2 years and my boyfriend is now in the army, we both talked about it and thought it would be a good thing to do. now that he is in the military, i feel neglected and he is not the same person he was before ...

Is there recovery from cybersex/emotional infidelity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I recently found out about one of my boyfriend's cyber sex partners while we were vacationing together. I was using his computer to email my family when a woman named Rachael popped up on his skype to talk to him. I told she was asking for him and ...

Trust and loyalty towards family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My daughter was married for 2 years. Overnight she turned into a quiet, withdrawn person. Talking to her, supporting her didnt draw her out of her shell. During the 2 years we (family/close friends) noticed that things between her and her husband ...

I cant accept his religion, but I cant be without him either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - hey..im really confused and stressed out lately. i m in this relationship for 5 yrs. well i love him so much.. and he does too. but there is a religion difference between us..i mean its okay with me of being different, but he want me to convert to ...

He already has a child and doesn't seem to want another, but he is the love of my life...What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i am 30 years old and have never been married and never had a child, my boyfriend whom i love more than anything, has been married and has a child with his ex wife. i know in my heart that i want to get married and have a child someday. on the very ...

Am I crazy for staying?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - My wife and I share 2 gorgeous children and we are coming up to 12 faithful years together. Over the past fortnight she has revealed to me that she has fallen for a female work colleague. My wife has had a very sordid past with many men and women. I ...

My husband likes his bum licked, is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi guys this is rather a funny question but it has been puzzling me for a while now. My husband likes me to lick his bottom whilst he masturbates lol!. I know it sounds funny and i have no problems doing this but is it normal? He has a bit of an ...

The grass wasn't greener on the other side.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I want to work things out with my flame but I don't know how to cope with possible rejection. How should I go about. Keep in mind I crapped on her. Bailed out on her for another woman which flopped because my heart wasn't into her. It's been 2 ...

What is the secret to being happy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a question I'd appreciate your honest answer to. How many of you are truly happy in your lives? If so, what are your lives like and what's most important to you? What do you think the secret is to being HAPPY? How...

Which one is better? To love or be loved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My bf is an egoist person. He always asks me to stay online 24 hours for him. And always said that i must reply his chats. If i late reply 1 or 2 mins, he will get angry. He never allows me to attend someone's call when i chat with him. While he...

He wants to give us another try but I don't feel anything for him anymore! Should I work at getting the feelings back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Ok this is a long shot so here it is. My exbf broke it off with me and I took it hard. I cool now and guess what? He's pressuring me to give it another try. Ok so here's the deal. I'm tolerating him and I'm bored. I've lost every feeling of love ...

I want to get to know this guy better, but I cant leave my boyfriend because of his threats each time I try! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Please help, I don't know what to do. This is a long story and very confusing too. I'm in a relationship for 6 years, on and off. When i said on and off, I meant, i was looking a better different bf. However, my current bf and I fight all the time. ...

Should I chase her and get her back?..... I need an outside perspective!

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31 January 2011 (M) - I need some outside help in would greatly appreciated it. There is this girl that i dated 3 years back, but I have always kept in contact with her over the years. And now she is gone. i don't know if i should go chase something im not defiantl...

Should I confront this crazy coworker and tell her to stop stalking my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I discovered that one of my husbands much younger employees was sending him "I love you type" text messages. When I confronted him, he told me I misunderstood the context. He says the girl admitted to him that she was contemplating suicide and he ...

I get mad each time he goes to visit his son at his ex's house!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I'm living with my boyfriend for more than two years now, we have a 6 mos old son and he has another 3 year old son from his ex also. everytime he visits him i always get mad. i know i should not to but i just cant stop thinking that his going to ...

I rejected him twice, now we're friends with benefits...and while I want a commitment, there's nothing from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone:) Thanks in advance for reading this. I am dating this guy sort of, it has been 6 months about. He really pursued me hard, and I had let him know that I was not looking for a bf. I had been through a lot and didn't feel I was in the ...

I feel really betrayed that he'd get over me while we were in a relationship, talk to this girl who was his "friend" behind my back and then breakup with me after I tried really hard to change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK before i start i want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my question. Ok my boyfriend for 10 months recently dumped me about a month ago. He said i was too controlling and i didnt trust him. Before this huge breakup i dumped h...

I've got a whole lot of perversions and moral failings that I'd like to disclose to the girl I'd probably get involved with. How do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hello World, I've got a question that I think I already know the answer to, but would like some reassurance with all the same (or other answers if any). It's about a woman I've been getting close to (in a strictly non-GF/BF way), and would like g...

How do I cope with panic attacks when giving presentations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - well this isn't a relationship question but i do need advice, and not many people really take it seriously basically im 15 and in highschool, and my problem is that i sruggle with giving oral presentations, really struggle, a couple of weeks ...

Is alcohol really a deal breaker in a relationship or am I making too big a deal out of it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years now...we were friends for much longer. While everything is fine with us, and there is no "relationship" problem, the only thing that bothers me about him is alcohol. Its not that he's an alcoholic or any...

Advice on dealing with my teenage daughter?

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31 January 2011 (M) - my 16yo daughter took up with some pentacostal revivalists who kept on pressuring her to increase the commitment. after a few months she broke away and became friendly with a lesbian girl and developed a relationship. the girl and her friends showed ...