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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I change things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Hey, my life is falling apart. I only have a part time job, live at home and cannot drive. My group of friends aren't talking to me as I had a argument with one of them over a boy I am texting (I know it might sound silly but she was trying to get ...

"T'is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" - yes/no

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

4 January 2011 (?) - Just out of curiosity, what are people's thoughts on this sentiment? Are the 'highs' of being in love ALWAYS worth the 'lows' of breakup and loss?...

I really want to be with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5059 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - I am in the army when I went on leave during the holidays I met this girl then I had to go back to Kentucky and now i cant stop thinking about her I don't eat much I just keep waiting for a text (which she does). She feels the same way about me but ...

Am I over analyzing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I'm looking for help to translate guy speak! My bf has been unwell, sent me a message saying the Dr told him to stay home and rest for a couple of days, so I sent him a message saying that if he needs anything, just let me know. He replied ...

Should I try to get the truck back from my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - My fiance and I broke up 2 months ago. I wanted to try to work things out, but he doesn't. I still love him and keep hoping that we will get back together. Problem is I took a loan out for a truck that he is driving. I don't want to be financially ...

My boyfriend's facebook "friends" make me very uncomfortable...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend recently added a girl he used to like on facebook. They originally kept in touch back in 2005, before i met him, and i think originally, they were intouch on msn, although i dont know where they first found each other. She lives in ...

Should I run?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I have a boyfirend who had found me after a number of years we were in love once and parted and he found me again * I'm a bit freaked out in the time we were apart he married and now has split from his wife he has a son to her his 25 year old step ...

How many partners is too many partners?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

4 January 2011 (?) - I am a 29 year old woman trying to figure out if I have had too many partners or if I am just average and don't need to worry. I feel pretty average. But when men ask, I'm never sure how I measure up. I know it depends on the man. How many p...

From girlfriend to friend but secretly not over him...how do I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me few months back and we are now friends. My problem is, i am not over him, i still love him. He sees me just as a friend, but he knows how i feel about him. He is asking my advice about dating other girls,...

Am I over my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - hi! well basically, iv been in a long term relationship with someone previously for almost 3 years... and within the three years i have been through a lot with them for example his cheated on me and i stil took him in.. and that has messed me up al...

How to stop yourself turning into a mother- or sister- or friend-type of girlfriend,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I'd love some advice on how you stop yourself turning into a mother- or sister- or friend-type of girlfriend, if that makes sense? I've been with my bf for 4 months, think he's gorgeous, kind, caring, funny, intelligent, sexy. He's the ...

When guys ask women about their sexual pasts, do they really want an honest answer?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - This question seems like a no-brainer at first... who's going to say they DON'T want honesty? But then I read all the posts on here from people (mainly guys, it seems) who are insecure about what their partners have done before them, and with whom, ...

I lied about the number of people I slept with.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I told my boyfriend at the beginning of my relationship,I had been with 3 people before him,sexually wise. He believed it. Sometime later into our relationship,he became my fiancé and we are together. He asked me how many people I have been with. I ...

There is a chance my little girl may not be mine, how do I handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and me have been together for nearly 3 years and we have had our ups and downs but we always stay together because we love each other. We have just had a baby together and now it turns out that she slept with someone else around 9 ...

How long have you waited for a lover to come back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I was recently dumped after a 3 month relationship and I was wondering how long some of you guys have waited for a lover to come back? Months, years? ...

He doesn't want to work, but I want a man who can be an equal partner and contribute to the relationship. Who is right here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy and apart from a few dates at the beginning and the occasional petrol money we split all the bills for the outings about 50/50. He pays slightly more as I am looking for work and he is working. The thing is I don't feel ...

I don't know how much more I can take!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - hey all, i am in a really desperate situation with my relationship, i met my boyfriend 15 years ago and we got caught out with our daughter a happy mistake we had problems pretty much straight away, him going out getting drunk ignoring my calls and ...

After my ex cheated on me it has changed my whole outlook on life, how can I overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - I was wondering how you can change the way you feel about something. For example i used to be an all around happy person that nothing ever bothered me i always looked at the positive points in every situation. When my ex girlfriend would say ...

My boyfriend ignores me when I talk!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of one year ignores me. When I talk sometimes he just sits and says nothing. I am not asking for a long conversation, but even a "yeah" or "sure", I mean anything. It is extremely rude and driving me crazy. The other day I talked about ...

My boyfriend thinks there's no such thing as making love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend thinks sex and love are completely different entities and that theres no such thing as making love. The other day i asked him, what if i had sex with another man is it okay? he said, no coz i wouldnt be having sex. What kind of a...

Whats going on here? Have I lost him forever??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - This guy and I were communicating on Skype as friends b/c we are Long distance. We've known each other for 4 years now since we met in person. We used to email before then we turned to Skype and he erased me from his contacts so I thought he cut-ted ...

Why is it said that you should hang out with people your own age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - why do some people say that you should hang out with people your own age ?. I'm almost 27, but the men i have liked in the last few years have been between the ages of 39 and 47, and i hang out with some women who are in their thirties and forties ...

I'm constantly checking out women and I want to stop being so shallow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - Hello. I seem to have a problem. I have always followed and been under the influence of the notion: looking past the outside, for what's on the inside. But, here is the problem. I often find myself, checking out women constantly. All the time. Co...

Should I throw it all away and start over with something more creative or should I look for jobs that will use my legal training?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - This is not a relationship question, but I hope to get some opinions from you guys. I've been working as a lawyer for just over 3 years and have come to the realisation that I HATE it. I went to law school because I wanted a high paying, prestigi...

Should I give it a try with him even though I've heard bad things from my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (?) - I have had an infrequent casual sexual relationship with a friend of a friend. He is the platonic friend of my girlfriend. Lately, I get the sense that he might want to deepen the relationship with me. I am not opposed to this and at times I f...

Should I be worried that I look a lot like his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I just saw some photos of my boyfriend's ex on facebook and she looks a lot like me. So much so, that in 1 pic she looks EXACTLY like me - I can't even tell the difference! Does that seem really weird to you? I'm wondering if he cares so much for me ...

In love with a bad boy: Should I give him more time to change or am I being too caring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Alright so, I figured I'd try a website like this out so I could get the opinions of people that arent biased. I've been dating this guy for almost 3 months now, and makes me happy, He's an overall good boyfriend, and never ceases to try to make m...

Am I unlucky in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - here is a list of my exes.. tell me what you think.. (most recent first) just wanted a FWB ex-girlfriend and mother of kid cheated on him and it left him an emotional mess. I met him only a few weeks after she had dumped him for her other man, b...

What did I do that caused this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (?) - I need some advice, on how I contributed to this problematic relationship. The first 2 years were fine, but the last year that we moved in together was complete hell. She was always very insecure and would accuse me of being interested in ot...

Is this girl evil?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - I recently got into a fight with a girl I know about what she does. Basically, she sleeps with men for money and she leads others on by pretending she is interested in them. She sort of is, but when they get too close she pulls back----but only ...

My sex drive has gone into overdrive, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - hi guys! :) not really relationship problems but i deffinately think i have a problem! when i first got with my boyfriend about 18 months ago id been in previous relationships, so had he, we'd both had a few sexual partners, nothing out of the ...