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Big Questions: Help and advice

To what extent does scent affect attraction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - A question for the uncles! How much do you enjoy a female's scent? Would you pick a clean but plain smelling girl or rather one who had on an distinct added scent such as perfume, deoderant, shampoo etc.? To what extent does scent affect attractio...

Should I go back home and get an education? Or keep doing web cam modeling like my friends suggest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - Hello Everybody, I am thinking of moving back to my home country,been in the Netherlands for sometime now and things are not going as planned for me.As for my Education,i am a high school graduate,i tried saving for University but failed to ra...

My wedding is a few weeks away and his ex wife and adult daughters are still causing problems.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I have written in before about my fiance's ex wife and 3 adult girls abusive behavior and was given advice that we followed and basically blocked them off of facebook, and just continued living our lives. My fiance was able to reconnect with a ...

He hates sex, I stopped trying to initiate, now he says I neglect him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - MOD NOTE: Question asker is aged 60. Hi there. Any help/suggestions for my situation? My man is almost completely impotent....very affectionate, lots of pecks and hugs, but no passionate kissing, and a real fear of sex...whether he's afrai...

My husband wants to name our first child after his father, and for him it is not negotiable!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - I am pregnant and I found out that my husband and I will be having a boy. I am not excited because my husband wants to name our son after his father's name. It is a Lebanese tradition that the eldest son of the family must name his future son's name ...

He is Armenian and I am Chinese, should I bother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - I met a guy, and think I am starting to like him. But the problem is thate we're of different races. I'm Chinese and he's Armenian. I've heard that Armenians are against dating outside their own race. I live in an Asian community and he lives in an ...

My boyfriend's mother doesn't make food available for him

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I are both 22 years old, we just finished university and have been looking for jobs. I managed to finally find one however my boyfriend is still looking and trying to find one. The problem is, I'm unsure of how to...

I want to try it with a girl but I'm afraid of the consequences

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - Hello everyone. Need your help! I am sexualy atracted to girls.I am 20 years old girl and have a baby I had in my teenage years. I'm on and off with her daddy we have so many problems and uncompatibilities.Im too scared to fullfil my fantasy because ...

Girlfriend is set on renting a house with me, but I don't know if I can afford it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3368 days ago

25 February 2015 (M) - hi, i am 22 and my girlfried is 19, my girlfriend of 9 months is planning on getting a flat with me next year, wich i dont feel ready for, i pay 180 a month to live with my mum and dad and am on a decent wage , and she pays 100 a month to live with ...

Is it too late to restart my life at 35?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - Do you think that at 34 (35 in 2 months) its too late to restart your life? I am living in a country that is not mine... With a man that I no longer love and can't stand him touching me... in a job that sucks... I just have this need to pack and...

An people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3370 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - Can people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed? I ask because for the past six years I have been on/off with my ex boyfriend. We met at school and our relationship began when we were 17. At first, everything...

What sexual skills do men look for in a woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - Hello, all! You know how they say curiosity kills the cat? Well,I'm afraid I'm the cat in this situation. One of the recent topics on this forum really got me thinking:http://www.dearcupid.or...

I found lip gloss in his car and I suspect he is cheating. Should I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I had a dream where my boyfriend told me "I'll always be your friend" and it was basically a break up. Lately, things have felt different and I do suspect another woman is in the picture. His behavior has changed and I found lipgloss in his car he ...

How can a husband handle such an issue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

24 February 2015 (M) - Is it proper for the woman to always pin her phones preventing her husband to never have access to her phone? Even when the husband demand that both of them should remove pin code from their phones, she refused. There after the maids alleged that ...

They say my appearance is "exotic" I'd rather be ordinary

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - So I'm 6'ft ,with very dark skin and slender Lately I've been given the title "exotic" by my friends and even by strangers I meet. I get told I'm beautiful and pretty and so on but every girl gets that. I never take these terms seriously becaus...

This man doesn't want to deal with his child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I have been knowing this guy for 17 plus years and all we do is have sex argue and then be ask for money. well we lost touch for a couple of years because he went to jail. i took it upon myself to contact him while he was in jail. i even started ...

Advice for moving out of your parents' home on a low income?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - Hi. I would like some advice on how I can move out of my parents house. Id like to get out ASAP. My household is pretty dysfunctional. My parents always fight, my dad drinks, they both verbally abuse me and question my every move. My dad has tried ...

Why do the thongs I wear not seem go fit right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - When I wear thongs, it fits like it should when I first put it on. They're comfortable and I have no problem with them at all. By the end of the day, I notice it makes its way up my vagina and sometimes, it rides up in the back and hurts a little ...

When I get depressed I rely too heavily on my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - The past 6 months or so I've been extremely depressed (tried medications, therapy, etc), and I've become clingy and overly dependent on my boyfriend. I know it's not healthy and I know it's not fair to him -- he has been so amazing and always t...

I need advice about my married lover and his intentions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - hello my name is sweet c and i have a problem that i need help with. ok i met this guy and we hit it off the first night and we ended up sleeping together the first night. but the sex was different because he was having a hard time getting up. so w...

I'm his girlfriend but our mutual friend is now treating me like a third wheel

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I feel like my on/off boyfriend of 2 years doesn't know how to set boundaries when it comes to other girls. Alright so basically my boyfriend and I have a mutual female friend. The three of us have spent a good chunk of our lives together so we h...

Should I let my irresponsible sister move in with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

22 February 2015 (?) - Hello, ok after suffering years of abuse, I have decided to move out of the turbulent man's house I have called father for years. The issue is I have enough cash to set my self up...tho am still seeking employment but the things is I have a twin s...

I'm uncomfortable saying his name because of my accent

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - This is going to sound really stupid but I'm genuinely finding it difficult to say the name of someone I've just started talking to platonically online. I haven't met them yet and, if I will it will be a while away, so I don't need to say it but t...

I'm worried about what my friends will think of my much older father

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - Hey, I am having trouble... My dad, well, he's a bit older than most dads, I'm a teenager, and he's in his 70's. I love my dad, but this has made me so so so self conscious! Anyway, it's my birthday in a few days, and I'm having a party with my ...

When it comes to sex, what is considered appropriate for my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - Hi, So recently me and my boyfriend have become really close and have started to try new things. Whenever he comes over we make out and we gotten to the point where he's sucked my breasts. We get close and do lots of touchy feely things and yes, ...

What are some ways I can make extra income?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - Hello! I have a bit of a problem and hope you guys can help. For the past two years I've had a full time job working a 2PM-10PM shift. However, it's just not enough to make ends meet. I need more money. The question is what should I do to b...

I want to move out but can't afford it! Ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm 21 years old and I live with my father and brother. The thing is, I really want to move out and be on my own but I just can't afford it. Let me explain my situation. My father is retired. I love him to death but he stays at home...

Can I ever win him back or is that unrealistic? I'd like another chance to reconnect. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - Okay I feel like an idiot even writing this but I need other peoples insight. I was with my ex for 6 years, I have borderline personality disorder which caused alot of stress and fights and I believe ultimately was the ending of our relation...

How can I help our best friend who’s fallen ill and is being used by a gold-digger sociopath?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - For several months my husband’s and my best friend has had all sorts of problems and we stubbornly stood by him doing everything we can to help him. The only positive development is that he had left a horrible marriage behind, everything else ...

After these two incidents years apart, I'm not sure that my B/f's happy and committed. What do you guys think I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years was sending flirty text messages with another woman, about how he was going to be in her area soon and how he wanted to see her in a bikini etc. She stopped responding after a few back and forths and so it fizzled out. ...

She did us a big favor, but how long do we owe her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - It's a bit sensitive situation andi need an advice. We have a customer who at one point did a huge favor for us that it resulted in bringing us quite a bit of business. On her part it was absolutely effortless. She is kind and generous lady, r...

He wants me to be exclusive with him. But there is another woman in his life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - i met this guy i been having sex with him the last mouth he has been helping me in so many ways. he talks to my kids he tells me he wish he met me fours years ago before he met the women he is with now he wants me to wait for him for me to have no ...

What can we do to work through the issues that impact on us as a couple due to her parents prejudice against disabilities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - first off, i have a disability which impacts me physically. it's nothing serious and i can live a normal life, but with some minor limitations. ok, so i've been dating this absolutely amazing girl. she fully understands my limitations, and...

My wife wont talk about our sexless marriage and thinks everything is ok!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - Hi I'm been married 27 years After my wife had breast cancer 20 years ago she as gone completely of sex when I try to touch her she just turns around I've tryed talking to her but she's not interested I still love her but ate being regected all ...

Does anyone in a long term relationship still feel in love/the "spark" with their SO?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

16 February 2015 (F) - I'm curious as to whether or not there are long term couples out there who still feel in love after a long time. I've always been dumped/cheated on once the infatuation period wore off so I'm always paranoid about it. My current relationship is ...

I'm a man who wants to have a semi relationship with a man while I play the part of the woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

16 February 2015 (M) - About me: young, live in a tiny village in the uk, have been crossdressing on and off for 5 years now, have met up with men but always get tested regularly. So since starting my industrial placement from uni last summer I've expanded my ward...

Does my boss hate me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

16 February 2015 (F) - My boss acts like he hates me. One time he had to make an announcement and when I looked up at him, he saw me and immediately turned to another co-worker and looked at him instead. He'll avoid eye contact with me or turn and look away. He'll exclude ...

I'm tired and depressed and it's affecting my work

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

15 February 2015 (M) - Hello everyone :) My problem sounds a little stupid but i would really appreciate your guys help! Basically i work at in retail and recently ive been very tired and depressed i usually can block this out but its got worse its effected my sale...

I need help dealing with an obsessive lover

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

15 February 2015 (F) - I need help dealing with an obsessive lover. Here is some background info. Thank you all for taking the time to read. I teach at a University and very recently, we had a new colleague join the Department. He was a part of the Dept prior to my j...

I am a failure, with no ambition or plan .............

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

15 February 2015 (M) - I don't know how to be/live positively when I can't find/see any positive or redeeming features in myself. The only way I can encourage myself to do something is by bringing myself down and disparaging myself. for example I went to the gym and kept ...

My husband wont stand up for me with his family, he doesn't wont the confrontation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

15 February 2015 (F) - Hello. I have been very happily married for 12 1/2 years. We have three beautiful children. Two have ADHD and one is Autistic, not high functioning. My husbands family pretends that they accept me. I say pretends because there is always something ...

I believe he is sorry, am I crazy to trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

15 February 2015 (F) - I'm 18 and have been friends with a guy from school for four years , he has an older brother who is 21, he has always been friendly but nothing major. When he was in high school he was a complete player dating lots of girls, after high school h...

I feel like my colleagues aren't pulling their weight

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - More than anything I need to rant right now, and hear if this is something others have found good ways to deal with. I recently started in a new job, but Im already feeling like several of my co-workers don't do their share, yet expect me to do ...

Should we allow my mother in law to babysit our very young child while our m I l appears to be drinking alcohol to get drunk regularly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I think my mother in law drinks (commercial product/mouth wash) to get that drunk feeling instead of wine. My m.i.l. babysits my 6 month old baby, and she always had a drinking problem, she drinks wine everyday, until we asked her to stop because ...

I want to forgive my mother, I know she will never change and I don't want to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - My mother is a workaholic. She always has been, my whole life. She's fond of saying how she went back to work the day after she and I came home from the hospital after I was born. She says she works so hard so that we can have a nice life but I ...

I get a tingly feeling when I see a naked woman but nothing when I see a naked man. Am I gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - I really do not want to ask this question cos I am disgusted by it but it is the truth and has left me pondering if I have any interests in women. I get a tingly feeling down there when I see a females breast but am indifferent if i see a naked man. ...

Will I always be the odd one out if I remain single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - I'm 33 and single. I've probably had an average number of relationships for somebody my age - some were good, some bad and one unfortunately was abusive. The last relationship I had was one of the abusive ones and it took a long time to trust me...

It's our first Valentine's together, but I might have to be at work! How can I make it up to my partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - So, there's a really good chance I'm going to be busy on my partner and my first Valentine's Day together. I applied for a job, have made it to second round interviews and if I make it through that I'm going to be inducted and working on Valentine's ...

Why is my partner of one year suddenly interested in performing cunnilingus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - I have been a relationship with this man for a year. He never performed cunnilingus on me until about a month ago. It was not a big deal for me as he was great at everything and it did not make a difference. but WOW I was so surprised and he is ...

My boyfriend broke my hymen but we did not have sex. Am I still a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 878 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - please i am a virgin but my boyfriend put his penis on the tip of my virginal. it did not hurt me but suddenly my hymen broken and bleed but we did not have sex. please am i a virgin?...