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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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He left me to have a good time with his ex, and now that she's out, he wants me back again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've had many trust issues with my boyfriend. Most with his ex girlfriend. Many issues in general, including: When they first broke up he started talking to me a couple weeks after.. then we started 'talking'. Before I left for Mexico in the summ...

Changed so much with trying to accommodate the men in my life, I don't even know who I am anymore...

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30 January 2011 (F) - I've been in 2 serious relationships one after another for the last ast 4 years. I've been single for about a week now and I don't know who I am anymore. I've changed to accomadate these men and now I feel like I've depended on them so much I lost ...

Is there any way to make him pay maintenance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - hi can anyone give me advice 25 yr ago i had an affair which i became pregnant my daughter is now 25 years old out of the blue after 25 years he wanted a parternity test which was positive (which i knew it would be) but since then he has not ...

16, in love, and ready to have a baby. Need advice, opinions, and feedback!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I'm 16 years old and want a baby. Ok so I'm 16, turn 17 in 10 months, I finish high school in just under 5 months and have already achieved good grades so far. My boyfriend is the exact same except he is 2 months older then me. We have been tog...

My boyfriend has anger issues, but I don't want him to leave. Will he ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really dont know what to do anymore! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 6 month old son. He works nights and I look after our son. He gets really naggy over the slightest thing and will shout, swear, and punch the walls....

3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...

At what point in a relationship can one justify using the word 'love'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Hello, a very misleadingly simple question... at what point in a relationship can one justify using 'love' as opposed to the elements of infatuation to describe the mutual feelings between the two involved? As a mere teen-ager, I find the often-used ...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

Should I wait for the relationship that might not happen or just go for it and see how far it could go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Im single and so he is. It's always been more than just friends, we 'sext' all the time. He wants us to have sex but doesn't like talking about a relationship. He's not a virgin but i am. Should i wait for the relationship that might not happen or ...

Should I propose to her, or am I making a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - I've known and have been sleeping with my girlfriend for 2 years besides a several month period where she changed her number and took me out of her life. Here's the deal and I am trying to get to the bottom of this and it isn't easy...we have h...

The eternal triangle strikes again. How can I solve it amicably guys?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I'm 17 and for the past year I've become best friends with a group of guys.(I have girlfriends too but I prefer hanging with guys tbh). I love them to pieces. For the past month or so me and one of the guys, Z, have developed feel...

I love my hometown so much I do not want to leave it, but there's no career opportunities for me here. Is it silly to stay even though?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi there, I'm in my late twenties and I value my lifestyle possibly too much. I live in a small city that, to me, has everything. We're five minutes away from several beaches, forrests, tramping and hiking spots and one of the most beautiful na...

My boyfriends parents do not accept our relationship, and I am engaged to someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - (Moderator note: please note the nationality of the question-asker before answering) I have a boyfriend. I love him alot, but his parents torture me and are abusing me. They hate me but my bf loves me alot and I also love him But his parents do n...

Will my girlfriend get used to my large penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend finds it painful being on top since my penis is so large. But I love it when she is. Also sometimes afterwards she feels pains in her uterus. Are these pains normal? And is it best to just get used to her not being on top, or shoul...

I lack a lot of confidence and am always so worried about never finding someone special?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - This may sound immature for someone my age, but anyway, I'm 21 years old and am in my second year of the nursing program. I'm involved in a sorority and am busy most of the time with everything in my life and it may appear as though I'm content. But ...

Second thoughts about my relationship...why???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - hi im having second thoughts in my current relationship. we have been together for 2 years and still counting. he always showers me love and care and we are constant on the phone as we are staying in different states.i know i love him with much ...

Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...

3 guys like me all at the same time...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5036 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Okay...Well, not sure who to start with but I know this love square thing was not supposed to happen. There is this guy who ive been talking to for a year and we have tons in common but I just have not come to like him more than a friend and he is ...