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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Does she actually think I would have a chance with a beautiful model?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - My gf and I were watching television the other day and an ad with this attractive model came on, she asked me, 'Would you approach her?', even though she knows I'm not the type to flirt with other women. She doesn't act like the insecure type a...

Guys want girls to be exclusive but don't want to be exclusive themselves

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Why do guys always feel like they can make a girl commit to him exclusively and not the other way around?Meaning the girl cannot have her say, like express her feelings of commitment (ask him to be her boyfriend), or something like that, whatever it ...

How do I handle this to make her want to be with me as my GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - hi everyone i currently go to college in the uk and there's this girl in my class. i liked her from the moment i saw her but i then found out that she had a boyfriend. So i tried to not look at her, in that way. Before christmas she was telling ...

In a LDR and I don't like how I'm getting sexual relief and don't want to tell him either. But I do want to stop. But how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is abroad..and would remain so for another year. We have made out 3-4 times in person. And now we maintain touch through video chats, emails, sms etc. We continue our physical bonding also by doing it together either on voice or cam. ...

I push people away and then feel I have no friends. I don't know what to do. Help please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - i have "friends" but lately i feel really isolated from them and i feel like they're all closer to each other than i am to any of them. whenever i become good friends with someone, i for some reason start to push them away. i dont know why, i just ...

My husband's GF is harrassing me. My husband's screaming at me. We are in debt. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Help, i'm 29 and was happily married for five years with three children when my husband told me he had an affair, the reason he told me was she was blackmailing him. I was wrong she is pestering me by phone, text, E-mail, facebook, in person. i have ...

I have strong feelings for my BF's brother. I don't want to hurt anyone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5069 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I fancy my boyfriend's brother so much, it kills me to look at him. I don't think I've ever felt such a strong sexual desire for anyone. The more I try not to think about it the more I do. I really don't want to feel like this but I'm not sure how ...

I have a strong desire for my 18 year old cousin. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I'm 16 I have a cousin who is 18 . Many times when I'm by their house she would sometimes have on some boy shorts or somthing tight. Sometimes she catches me looking at her, but most of the time she doesn't say nothing and I have a huge attraction ...

Problems with my boyfriend's kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My bf and I live together. I have children from previous relationship so does he but mines and our 1 live in our household. He is military and I'm currently unemployed. He pays child support and does visitation twice a month. His ex is unstable. Her ...

My cruel and spiteful mother has left me with no self esteem...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Having just turned 21, I've realised that there isn't a single year of my life so far that I can remember where I haven't hated my mother. From about the age of 10, she has repeatedly spewed hate and cruelty at me. Her favourite being to refer t...

Help! I have no self-esteem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - okay I have no self estme or confidence what so ever. what can I do to change that cause Ive driven into hateing myself for it... (sorry if I mispelled anything)...

Will I ever be good enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for nearly 2 years now.. and I love him with all of my heart.. he is everything I have ever wanted in a guy. He is the first guy to ever actually seem to care about me and love me.. unlike my ...

Does this count as sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - so first off my boyfriend and i have never had sex. okay two nights ago my boyfriend and i were messing around on the couch (like he was rubbing himself on me but not going in) and he kind of slipped and went in maybe an inch or so but n...

Need help! What does this mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - hey guys i need to know what this means: " seriously though I think her looks saved her or else I think ud only get two camels at the market for her" what is this person trying to say????...

Help! I want to forget the bad love and shift to the good love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I met her (A) last year at a christmas party and fell in love with her immediately. So beautiful. So funny. And damaged. I love those damaged girls. I even had a girlfriend at the time who I wasnt crazy about romantically but had a great ...

Why has she kept my number and why can't she look at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - So there's this girl who once before looked me in the eye for a long period of time, like we were the only ones in the room and seemed so into me, in deep meaningful way, for a prolonged time (5 or 6 secs) but she cant seem to look at me any other ...

I need options other than marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I seem to always meet the wrong guys, am beginning to feel maybe marriage is not meant for me. Am seriously considering remaining single and adopting a child. Is there any other alternative? Am just tried of been betrayed over and over again but ...

Staying clean :)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My friends sister cleans her vagina with yogurt. She says it makes everything smell good. I think this is crazy. But I also want to try it. Does anyone know if its safe? And how to do it? Also, if it doesn't work what can I use besides those in ...

What is his body language telling me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I really like a guy and wanted to ask your opinion on body language. When I was upset he embraced me really tight and keep hugging me really close and was playing with my hair and stroking it. So what does he body language imply is it fri...

He felt me up and I liked it...what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - ive been with girls my whole my life n never really thought of men, but the other night a guy felt me up n tried to go with me n it really turned me, does that mean im gay?...

Is it long enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I have a 6in penis, will i be able to reach the g-spot of my girlfriend. Because I heard that only bigger penis like 6.5in and more could reach the g-spot.I am afraid she would feel dissatisfied... Just getting prepared for our first time ... ...

Not sure what to do. Fiance threw her ring at me after a huge fight. I think I've had enough.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Not quite sure what to do here. My fiance of 3 months (dated a total of 2 years 5 months.. lived together for a year and a half) and I got into a big blowout over how I "never listen" and take friends opinions more seriously and how I "lie" about ...

How can I turn my life around so I don't feel the way I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I go to an all guy school.... There's only 2 other girls and I'm not Friends with anyone there... It's a school for bad behavior and learning dissabilitys... I have troubles around males... And bad trusting issues... My biological dad abused me and ...

Why do I have the worst luck with women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Why do I have the worst luck when it comes to women? It never fails. All of the women I meet and take an interest in turn out to already have boyfriends. I meet these women in a variety of settings so location really isn't an issue. Whether I ...

I was told by my GF :"Girls don't like it when guys last long, they get sore and it hurts down there". Really???

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Hi, Happy New Year by the way! So, when I have sex with my girlfriend, first I pleasure her for about 7 minutes until she finishes, then we have sex and I last for about 1 minute on a good night. Now, once I kept "doing it" for a while after I wa...

Does the passionate kissing mean he is trying to sleep with me asap and that he's only seeing me for that? Or do guys usually act that way??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hello all! I am 23 years old and I recently started talking more to a college classmate who is 22. We never really talked, but now that we're in holidays we've been frequenting the same parties and people and we have gotten to talk more. I...

I am a closeted male. How can I deal with my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Hello Everyone! Thank-you for taking your time to read this. I am a closeted male who feels that he has issues when it comes to liking someone. I notice that when I like someone I fall extremely quickly. Right now I have a crush on someone who I ha...

Why do people think they can talk down to you, just because you're serving them food!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hi guys just a random question. Since I was 14 Iv worked in fast food to aupport myself and help out my family. I'm currently in uni and online o graduate with a first. But why is it that people think they can speak to you like crap just cos your ...