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*rancedRhythmEar
writes:My new gf has a pierced clit. Any ideas on things to avoid and things to do with her intimacy wise? Thanks for any advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar +, writes (27 May 2013):
TrancedRhythmEar is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the advice. Well noted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2013): Did she have her clit pierced, or just the hood?
I've had over a dozen piercings. This is general advice for piercings. She needs to keep it clean until it heals. No oral until it is fully healed. Mouths are full of germs that will infect new piercings! She needs to clean the piercing as often as she was told to. She should also have been told to soak the piercing in a warm salt water solution and should do that as often as she was told to.
If she has a lot of pain, swelling, or redness she needs to immediately consult the person who provided the piercing. Sometimes this can be caused by an allergic reaction to the jewelry, sometimes it is an infection that may need medical attention. If the person who provided the piercing is unavailable, she would need to see a doctor immediately.
If she has pain associated with the piercing and the pain does NOT subside after the piercing has healed, she will want to remove the piercing. I had two seperate piercings (one was my tongue, the other was a cartiledge piercing on my ear) that were painful for years after they healed. If it is painful months after healing completely, that pain will not go away until the piercing is removed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2013): you have to at least describe it a little. by "piercing" do you mean there is a hole in there? how big or small is it? is any metal piece attached to it (like an earing?) did she choose to have it?
I know there are girls in your area who are forced to lose some part or all of their clits. (barbarian beliefs and traditions)
If she chose to have it, then you're fine. It doesn't hurt when you touch it. In fact she may enjoy it more when you play with it. Just be gentle and don't do anything crazy. If she wants more, she will let you know.
If she was forced to have it, then you have to be careful. Make her sure that you like her. Make her comfortable. She may have lost the ability to get clitoral orgasms. Don't make her feel bad.
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