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writes:I've asked a question about this before, but I need some more advice. Basically, I like someone a lot. Lots in common, we argue about literature and politics. I'm 14 he's 16. My last question was based on whether 2/3 years was too big an age gap and the response was 'there sounds like there's no maturity gap, whatever inside the law is fine'. I see him once a week for about 2 hours, but we talk on Facebook all the time. We have had a none stop debate/discussion for two weeks. I hope the fact that he keeps replying is a good sign I wish I could see him more, but I have to get the bus to where he lives and I can't think of any excuses for seeing him more often! Help!
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reader, Dayzee  +, writes (25 May 2013):
What a sensible young girl you seem. I think that you are asking good practical questions. I also see that you have been given an excellent suggestion to agree to meet half way. Could you also invite him to your house to meet your family?
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reader, Abella  +, writes (25 May 2013):
 Meet him half way. Suggest an exhibition or an event (free if possible) that you would like to see with him. To get his opinion. So if you live near something interesting or picturesque that you have never visited then suggest that you would love to visit xyz place one weekend, but you don't want to visit on your own. Would he like to meet up and you and he could visit it together.
Or tell him about a favorite place and if he has not been there suggest that you show him around the place and maybe have a packed lunch in a public place at that destination.
Not only will you get to see him but you will also store up some positive memories together.
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