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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Last October I got to know this guy on a night out (found out we had stuff in common, are on the same course, same uni etc) nothing happened that night but he emailed me on Facebook about timetables got talking and he gave me his number. We were texting practically everyday with long conversations and 3 to 4 kisses were left (may sound daft but I think this is an important factor as it is quite a lot for a guy?) we got off twice - once on a random night out in October and another at the Halloween party - he did want sex but I said no, was being a bit traditional and wanted a date first!!!So it was December and we had still been texting everyday, and he suggested we go to Pizza Hut which obviously I was delighted about. I saw him at the Christmas ball and he was being very unfriendly which I found very odd considering the day before we were talking about this nandos. A few days later I found out that he slept with some girl (who now has moved on and has a boyfriend). I confronted him on a night out via text and since then we haven't really spoken...In January/February I suggested to forget about it and we had a brief conversation regarding football (which is odd as he's not at all into it - I am!) since then we've ignored each other when I thought we were kind of back to normal - now it's just awkward!!Recently, I can't stop going on his Facebook and realised that he's actually quite attractive. I've noticed I'm quite high up on his friends list (suggesting he may go on my profile a lot) and he's also joined football and tennis society's (which I support/am members of) or is this all a coincidence and I need to get a life and forget about him? He didn't invite me to his Birthday pre- drinks and invited all our mutual friends.. Awkward.The summer ball is coming up, I know that he's going, should I talk to him? Leave it and make him be the gentlemen? Or text him in the depth of the summer holidays acting normal? Or text him when I'm drunk? Or should I just leave it and move on ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2013): lol don't text him when you're drunk ( Not as if anyone follows that advice at our age lol!) well I'm 22 and I know a LOT of students to be Honest they're all looking to sew their wild oats (lol) (particularly male) and have fun with dating and partying , u know that most people aren't looking for their life partners at this stage, though some are. I think this guy is like this- there is tension between you both and he is attracted to you, but really doesn't seem like relationship material at the moment- and good on you, NEVER give a guy sex without him proving himself- whether it's him taking you out or remembering the exact colour of your eyes after a first meeting ;) Emotional rush though dating is at this stage, I think this guy could easily potentially hurt you; he seemed to distance himself from you when he got some from another girl; he was petty and Immature for singling you out (although this is cause he didnt get any from you and is part of his sexual persuit ) . It's your call, Just love and take care of yourself and if he hurts you remember it happens to everyone xxxx take care! :)
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (22 May 2013):
What in the world are you afraid of? You don't have anything to lose, so do what you need to do to get the results you want.
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