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writes:I got to know this girl at the end of the semester really well. She is my ideal girl. We spent a night together studying until 5 in the morning and we talked about how we can be OCD about certain things and talked about our family and personal lives. She was going home for the weekend and was not going to be back at school when I left but she changed her plans so we could say goodbye. I think this was a good enough indication that she is interested. She is still at school for an extra class and I am about to go back for the summer but am trying to get there a little earlier than expected just so I can see her again before she leaves. I want to know what are some good ways to let her know via text that I am coming back up early without sounding like a complete stalker case. Thanks
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reader, Tenderlovingcare  +, writes (20 May 2013):
 If she is interested (which it sounds like she is) then you won't sound like a stalker m'dear :).
surprise her? or tell her once you're on your way? It'd be sweet :).
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (20 May 2013):
Step one: stop being a wimp. If she likes you, you'd have to be a wierdo to sound like a stalker.
Step two: stop being a wimp. Pick up the phone like a grown man and call her. It may not be your guys' style until now, but it's the right think to do and should score you some points with her.
Just tell her you're coming back a little early (don't tell her it was so you could see her) and would like to take her out for dinner (or whatever) before she leaves. Have something planned already and just tell her you'll pick her up at so and so time.
Be direct and be brave. Good luck.
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