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writes:My brothers girlfriend has really started to annoy me. She previously went out with my fiancee's best friend, but they were only together for a week and he even said that he barely counts it as a relationship. She has told my brother that he has been sending her messages on facebook and then said that she deleted them because they annoyed her and he is believing all of it. This guy is now in a new relationship and has been for over a year and has no interest in her and she keeps lying to everyone saying he won't stop messaging her. My brother obviously believes her over any one else and it's causing a lot of drama because our wedding is in 10 days and My partner really wants his best friend to be there. I really do not like this girl but because she is my brothers girlfriend she even has to come to my wedding and my fiance's best friend can't. My brother is the type of person to start a fight over nothing, so I really don't know what to do. I tried telling him that the ex hadn't messaged her but he won't listen to anyone; he's not even expecting proof. I don't want any drama at my wedding but I want my fiance to have his best friend there. My brothers girlfriend and I worked together before they were in a relationship and she never even acknowledged me but now that she's with my brother, she has just decided that we need to be best friends. If I don't text her back when I'm busy, the next time I look at my phone she has sent like 5 messages asking why I'm ignoring her. How do I deal with this? I'm putting up with her at my wedding so what do I do to get the drama out of the way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2013): You decide who you want at your wedding. People are supposed to behave as civil adults at the ceremony, and put all their stupid drama aside. I think you have your hands full with the wedding, and getting too hyped up right now will stress you out.
I think your fiance's best friend cares enough about your wedding, that he will make it his business to be there no matter what. You shouldn't worry. Let things work themselves out. At this point, only 10 days away, there is a lot of tension. Everyone is on edge. It's normal.
Try to focus on being beautiful for your fiance, and let this be the happiest day of your life. Let all the issues on the fringes settle down. Enjoy your special day.
Everyone will realize you and your fiance' are the center of attention,not all that nonsense. She's just jealous and trying to steal your thunder by stirring up problems. Ignore her.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (21 May 2013):
 OH EXCUSE ME! Whose wedding is it? If your future husband wants his best friend there, well then, the best friend goes. Your brother's girlfriend can then decide if she is adult enough to attend or not.
Make sure your fiance's best friend is also able to take the lady he is in a relationship with.
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