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writes:So there's this guy and he is one o my close friends ( I'll call him zack ). Ok so zack and I have been getting along much more now and I have been having feelings for him for a little while. He is super nice and some days he's really fun funny and nice. And there are those days were he is super seriouse not playful and just wants to get work done. But still I like him and I even blush it's sooo embarrassing Yea and he says I'm pretty and even blushes a little too and does things for me. So how do I tell him I like him because he has been asking all day and waiting for my answer tommorow and he's guessing it's him maybe so plz tell me how to tell him I like him and not ruin our friendship :) thx :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone for the very good answers to my questions. So I told him and he said it was cool and that I should've told him. Cuz I told one of my dude friends and he told him do yea since then zack and I have been getting alOng much better and he has been hanging aroun me much more and playing and talking with me much more. I'm glad my friend told him cuz if I didn't then I would still have it tucked away in my secrets and be acting weird around him. So hopefully over time this will work out yay :) :) :)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (15 May 2013):
 Since he's initiated the talk, you have an advantage.
The next day, ask him this question:
"If I tell you I like you, will it ruin our friendship?"
If he says "No, it won't", then ask him
"If you like me, why not take the risk first and tell me."
If he gets all "You first" stuff, look at him and say with a smile:
"I like people who don't need to decide their feelings for someone else only on whether or not they like them first. If you like me, why not take the risk? You might like my answer as much as it sounds like you like me"
Then walk away.
This boy needs to grow a pair, but at your age, that's very common, so don't be too hard on him. If he's initiating the conversation, he need to come out and tell you how he feels. First. Just smile, but don't let him off the hook so easily and don't chase after him!!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 May 2013):
 Zack, I like you even though you are very annoying. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2013): If he asked if you like him; then tell him that you like him.Tell him you just don't want anything to change because of it.Tell him you like that he thinks you're pretty, but you're afraid he might treat you differently. That's all.He's only a kid. His feelings are going to change anyway. Boys his age don't get that serious about one girl. He just wants to know "how much" you like him. At your age, feelings change by the day. Will you get mad if he starts liking other girls? You can't control what he feels or how he acts by walking around all day acting weird. You just look silly. He has a crush. He can take it somewhere else, he just wants to check with you first.He might stop liking you, if you play games with his feelings. You don't own them. Be nice about it.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 May 2013):
Zack, you make me blush and now you want me to tell you I like you? Can't you tell?
Zack, you're annoying me. I like you, now go away.
Zack, yes, I like you.
He knows you like him, you've been pretty obvious if he is demanding to know your answer but won't tell you.
Zack, why should I tell you how I feel about you? Are you planning to ask me out? If you are planning to ask me out, I will tell you if the answer is "yes" or "no" but you have to ask me out first.
He's putting you on the spot, he wouldn't if he didn't think you liked him, so it's time you put him on the spot yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2013): Say, so all my friends say that you probably like me, whenever i talk about you to them. Do you? if he says yes, tell him. if he says no, dont tell him and say, omg i knew they were wrong! Believe me, it will work. Thats how i got my love to admit his love for me! by the way, im around your age, so you can trust me.
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