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anonymous
writes:Whilst going back through my history to find a webpage I had visited a few days ago, I noticed a certain name kept popping up and clicked onto the facebook page. I have never been on this page, nor do I have facebook! So I figured it was obviously my boyfriend (who occasionally uses my laptop.) I continued looking and saw that he had visited this girls page a fair few times over the past couple of weeks. Now the strange thing is that I had seen the same girl at a party at the weekend. I didn't know her and assumed that my boyfriend didn't. He didn't pay any attention to her and I didn't think anything of it until I saw that page.Does anyone think I should confront him about it? or am I worrying for no reason?It just all seems a bit strange.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2013): (original poster here)
To the anonymous poster, I'm pretty sure he has been looking through pictures as well and is definitely not friends with her on facebook. None of our mutual friends know her either.
Like CMMP said, I haven't made a big deal out of it, I know people are entitled to their privacy and I wouldn't want to embarrass him for no reason.
I'm not a jealous person but for some reason this has really got to me because of the strange situation. I just don't know how he could be going on a complete stranger's facebook for weeks and then not even acknowledge her when he saw her out :/
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (15 May 2013):
He's intrigued by/attracted to her. Don't make a big deal out of it as he really hasn't don't anything wrong. People deserve privacy for this exact reason. 99.99% of people have things, however small, to hide from their spouse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2013): Hm weird. Was he looking just at her page or through her pictures too? Is he facebook friends with her? Was he with a friend and maybe his buddy was looking at her or showing this to him?If he was looking through her pics and he is not facebook friends with her, he was probably fb stalking her. Maybe he has a crush or something.What I find weird is how he knew of her existence for a couple of weeks but when he saw her at the party he acted like he didnt know her. I would do some digging. See if you have any mutual friends or if he does with her. And yes I would confront him. You dont have to be mad but ask him like you asked on this site. You found it by accident, you were curious, remember seeing her at a party and wanted to know why the interest in her facebook page. See what he says.
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