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writes:Me and this young Guy work together and he is 21 and I am over 10 yrs older than him. I really like him but he sends me mix signals sometimes. I checked out his girlfriend who oworks at the same place we work, but different sections. Everyone knows I like him at work and I guess he likes me too, sometimes. The thing of of it is he ignored me some and then he plays with me too. He is a playboy. And everyone says there is no future there. Plus he thinks he got another girl pregnant. He does not know yet if its true about the pregnancy. I want to tell his girlfriend so bad. Then they be all in the cafeteria hugging and kissing and he be all over me earlier. He be saying "yeah this is my love" and make me feel like i am nothing. Like he told my friend that his girl is his boo. I know that that's his girl but he playing her too. It makes me mad when he disrespwcts me. And only if his girl knew. Should i tell his girlfriend. Should I? Then
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 March 2013):
 Not your place to tell her.
IF he's that much of a dog she'll find out. No sense in creating a hostile work environment for yourself.
You liking him is the problem. IF you didn't like him and want him for your own you would not even care...
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (10 March 2013):
you deserve better and so does she. whether you tell her or not is your own business, you seem like a smart woman who isnt into playing games, unlike this guy who clearly is playing games with you. I know it hurts you that he makes you feel like nothing but if he was worth your or his girlfriends time he wouldnt be this way. I will say one thing, if you do tell her please do so anonymously. because if he knew it was you, it could cause trouble and tension in the workplace and she might accuse you of causing trouble etc. you can totally do better by the way. good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2013): You are 31.... Don't you think you should be looking for a mature male who has his life together? Are you that needy for drama and turmoil in your life. The guy isn't a playboy, he's a cheat and immature. What exactly are you trying to do here? There is nothing you can gain here except sex with a 21 year old who has been around the block and back. This situation is more telling of your own life where poor decision making is the norm. A smart mature woman who keads a redponsible life wouldn't lower herself to his level.
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reader, llifton +, writes (8 March 2013):
 no you don't tell his girlfriend. you just back out completely and leave this situation alone. don't get involved in it.
why would you want to be with a guy who is cheating on his girlfriend and possibly has a baby with some random chick, while flirting with you when his girl isn't around, but then acts like she's the love of his life in your face? what the hell does this guy have to offer that you seem to need and desire so bad? he's a piece of shit. end of story.
drop this guy. move on and don't worry about him.
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