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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Good evening everyone,Thank you for stopping by to read my post. I am having a hard time explaining my sexuality. I classify myself as a straight woman, as in if I were to marry I would choose a man. I don't care about labels, but if you do then you would probably say I am bisexual whereas I say I am straight. But there is something a little off about me and here's what:I have had just the slightest attraction to females BUT not just any females the "manly" unfeminine lesbians. Not the kind that are fat and nasty who look like they're going to beat you up. For example, Ellen Degeneres, I think she is one of the most attractive women on the planet. I can picture myself making out with her. I go so far as to say she is very hot. I did kiss a manly looking girl when I was 17 years old. She dressed like a boy and was a lesbian. She knew I had a crush on her and I asked her to meet me and I initiated the kiss. It was not an emotional deep kiss, just a quick one as we were both nervous. Ever since then there hasn't been any other physical occurrences with me and a woman. As far as sex goes, I know I would not find it enjoyable with a woman at all. Kissing and caressing would be enough for me. Having sex with a female would leave me unsatisfied. The problem is, when I find people I am attracted to they are men and only when I know a girl is a lesbian and I see she dresses boyish then I will start to be attracted to her? I am a girly girl by the way and I wear dresses and makeup and have my nails done. Do you think my attraction to boys has any affect on me being attracted to the lesbians who dress like a boy??
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (8 March 2013):
 I'm the same way. I think a lot of women are. I consider myself a heterosexual who is bi-curious. I find masculine lesbians totally hot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2013): I think you are solidly attracted to masculinity.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 March 2013):
 Why not let go of the labels and categorizing and analyzing? Just experience your attractions and don't feel you have to quantify them or justify them.
Yes, maybe you are attracted to the so-called 'masculine' lesbians because they look manly. Okay, so what does that have to do with who you will wind up with? Enjoy your youth, enjoy your sexuality and don't spend so much time fretting about labels. It'll sort itself out when you meet the person you want to be with forever.
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