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writes:I’m a varsity student and sometime last year I met this guy who is about four years older than me. I found him very nice and funny. We went out on a few dates and he came to visit me a lot. When we went back to school he told me that he had a girlfriend, I was really shocked because I never once suspected that he had a girlfriend mainly because of the special connection that we had. I found it hard to believe and I did ignore it for some time but my conscience would not let me keep seeing this guy. I told him I wasn’t going to help him cheat on his girlfriend and that we should stop spending so much time together. After a few days he came and told me that he wanted to break up with his girlfriend and be with me. Schools closed and we went home en e problems began. He all of a sudden did not have time for me. His family owns several farms and he claims he was busy there the whole time. I only managed to see him once (and it was only for an hour) in three whole months. I just think where there's a will there’s a way, I believe he could have made time for me if he really wanted to. The worst part is he came to the city where I stay and he did not mention a word about it to me, I heard he was around from other people. The main problem with this is that he and his ex stayed in the same city. Now I’m thinking what if he had come to see his ex and they are back together? I’m now wondering how many times he has just come into the city and just left without my knowledge. Please help, is this guy worth it or not NB: I’m crazy about him; I think we made a special connection
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2013): "I just think where there's a will there’s a way, I believe he could have made time for me if he really wanted to." You are absolutely 100% correct. If he really wanted to see you, then he would have made time for you."Now I’m thinking what if he had come to see his ex and they are back together?"You've got it half right. He did come to see his "ex" but he never broke up with her."I’m now wondering how many times he has just come into the city and just left without my knowledge."Many more times than your sources know about."Please help, is this guy worth it or not"You know first-hand he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend, you have compelling proof that he's a liar and he's been actively ignoring you for three months. What do you think?"NB: I’m crazy about him; I think we made a special connection"Sorry, but he was a smooth-talking charming manipulative con artist looking for an easy convenient piece on the side and you were a naive starry-eyed chick who wanted to believe everything that he told you in order to get into your pants. I hate to have to come out and say it but it's the only way you're going to get it: You've been used and tossed aside. Hopefully you'll learn from your experience and make better choices and smarter decisions in the future.
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