A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a very sticky situation and I don't know what to do!I was dating this guy(let's call him “X”)for 6 years I met his family, and he proposed one fine day and we were going to get married, but then all of a sudden “X” decides to distance himself.Being in depression, I tried talking to him, get him therapy but nothing helped.Then “X” did something that left a permanent scar in my life, he 'left’, he left me, his family without saying anything he packed his bags and left saying he needed to figure things out.His older brother(“Z”) and I, we tried contacting him so much but in vain, it had been over 2 years and “X” wasn't coming back! The one who helped me get out of the depression was “Z”.I was this close to losing my job but he pushed me, helped me through my tough journey and we both started developing feelings for each other.Four days ago he said he loved me, everything was going okay when “X” reappeared out of nowhere and I cried and cried when I saw him.He said that he had been diagnosed with cancer which was in the initial stages and he didn't want to put me or his family in any kind of trouble or worry them. Instead he decided to handle it on his own.Now he's back, fighting cancer and with God's grace will be cancer free! And he kissed me... I wanted to tell him about “Z” but I didn’t.I asked “Z” what should we do now, ”Z” said we should just cool it down now and he doesn't want “X” to be upset,since he arrived home after so long, which I agreed to.But in the meantime “X” has been trying so hard to reignite the past! What do I do? I feel like a fool stuck in between two brothers!I think either way one would be hurt or it would ruin their relationship! Should I walk away from both and sacrifice my love:( I don't know what to do please help
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