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anonymous
writes:Why do I seem to only want sex from my boyfriend of two weeks? He's really shy and he's a virgin but I'm not - and I feel terrible! He keeps asking me out on walks and cute little dates, and then there's me; just trying to initiate more. How can I stop this? I'm coming off wrong.
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reader, R1 +, writes (24 March 2013):
 Women have sexual urges and desires like men. It's perfectly natural to be feeling like this. Try and control your feelings till its right for the two of you to take things further. Avoiding alcohol when you are together will help. Masturbating could help. Thinking about the bigger picture and not just sex! Good luck, I'm sure it will be worth the wait ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2013): Instead of feeling terrible and that you're somehow in the wrong, why not talk to him and find out what his deal is in terms of intimacy. He may just not know what he's doing and not see signs OP, he may actually be interested in moving things along sexually but just doesn't know how. So talk to him.
But as the others have said OP, if he wants to wait try and respect that, it's only been two weeks like. He can't possibly know if you're the one he wants to lose it to if it actually matters to him.
He's the person to answer your questions OP.
I bet you a tenner it's just a case of him not wanting to scare you off by moving too fast and he just doesn't see you're willing to get more intimate. not all guys who are horny jump at women OP, he may want you but is being too respectful.
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reader, MsSadie  +, writes (24 March 2013):
 You can stop it by relieving him of the relationship, i.e. break up.
Clearly you two are not looking for the same thing in a relationship, and so you owe it to yourself as well as your boyfriend to find people better suited for your needs and desires.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 March 2013):
 Karlos 5021 is right. Men get flak and reproaches for stealing virginities and using women for sex, why should it be any different if the roles are reversed. Tell him honestly how it's gonna be, and let him decide if it what he wants or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2013): Just tell him honestly that you're not looking for anything long term, then break it off with him.
So many people bad mouth guys for just wanting to be with a girl for her virginity, this is no different except the roles are reversed. I think you should allow him to lose it to someone who genuinely loves him and wants to be with him for more than just sex...
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