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30-35,
anonymous
writes:this guy I communicate with always texts me first, but doesn't want to know anything about me. after he texts me I am the one who ask how he is or questions about him. we don't have any sexual talk. and when I ask him why he talks to me, he gets defensive. I think he only talks to me when he is bored. he says he doesn't and gets upset.Any ideas why he talks to me?
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reader, Dawnielou  +, writes (28 July 2013):
Maybe he's just shy and not great at conversation in person? Or maybe deep down he likes you and just hasn't been able to tell you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe doesn't like me
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reader, xedep +, writes (27 July 2013):
 Hey. Ok it could be one of two things: Firstly it could be that he does like you and that it takes him so much ''courage'' to send the first text that he doesn't know what to say when you do reply, Im thinking this because he always gets defensive when you ask him and because he is the one putting the effort into making the conversation. If this is the case then why dont you just try and text him first or try and show that you are interested (if you are interested) just in some way let him know your intentions. The second thing could be because he is just bored, I know loads of guys who just randomally see me on-line on skype or facebook or something and decide to talk to me because they are bored and know Im up for a laugh or whatever. Just act how you feel around him (friendly or flirty) and see what happens, see what his response is. I hope this helps and makes sense :)
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