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I feel like I'm too unsociable to ever meet a girl

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Question - (26 July 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2013)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, *fc1727 writes:

I feel like I'm to unsocial to ever find someone I like(as in to go out with). I never really been that interested in dating but also when I get the opportunity to go out and meet girls my own age I make excuses to not go, for example, it was my best friends birthday and he had invited me and 4 other guys to come up to his house, go to a discoey dance kind of thing and stay the night at his house. I had no problem with the other guys or staying at his house it was just that I was too afraid of going to the dance thing I made my parents make an excuse that I couldn't go to the dance. Besides all people do at the dance is walk up to people and kiss them and I don't want to be kissing people because it's meaningless I have never even kissed someone and I'm afraid that I'm not social enough to have my first kiss until I've gone to university and if anyone found that out I most like would be made fun. What do you guys think I should do?

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A male reader, Gfc1727 United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2013):

Gfc1727 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks I'll try out that site and get to know some girls my age

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A male reader, Gfc1727 United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2013):

Gfc1727 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for your advice I understand that there is no need for me to meet a girl at my age and that I should wait until university. It's probably the fact that the the people I hang out with are going Out and meeting girls but they just do it to seem cool and no one can force me to meet someone so I will wait until it happens, whenever that is. Thank you very much for your advice

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A male reader, Gfc1727 United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2013):

Gfc1727 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

The thing is I go to an all boys school so already that's a problem because I can't make friends that are girls that way also I have I play in the top divison of soccer or football in my country for which I train two times a week and have a game on either Friday evening, Saturday and Sunday and I'm not willing to give my footballing career up for a girl so that's another problem as well as homework and the fact that I live in a rural area it's not easy to meet new people let alone girls so what should I do

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