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writes:So my crush that I've had for awhile, I think he has a girlfriend . I found out a couple days ago over social media . I was heartbroken . I'm still trying to get over it . Now I wanna make sure that I don't like him anymore after this . I don't wanna feel miserable anymore . So I need to know how to get over him and not think about him anymore Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2013): I know how it feels and I am older than you but it hurts at any age. I have a crush on someone and I don't know if he
has a girlfriend or is married. Venting to others helps.
Distracting yourself and keeping busy is best. Sometimes
when you least expect it a new guy will come into your life. But you need time for you and your friends. Enjoy yourself! Have something to look forward to. For me I would watch my
award shows and eat popcorn. Watch a music video of my
favorite star and dance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your helpfull answers I will use them Definatly and do my best to get him out of my mind. I barley think about him now so that's a good start and yeah I do deserve to be happy and not destroy myself over him having a girlfriend so yeah I am doing so much better and my friends are a great help. Thank you all again !! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2013): You need to spend more time with your friends, so you won't think about him so much.
Have two or three of your friends come over and have a sleep over, and don't talk about him.
Just play video games and music, do the things girls like to do. Only talk about guys that are singers and entertainers; don't get serious. His memory will start to fade away.
Try not to feel too bad about it. If you like someone, it takes a little bit of time to get over it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2013): I have been in exactly the same situation. I had a hopeless crush on this guy I barely knew, but then I found out he had a girlfriend. My heart was shattered and I was devastated. I knew I had to get over him, but I honestly did not want to. I think that is the first important thing, convince yourself that getting over him is the best for you. If you don't fully support yourself in this process, you'll not succeed. Secondly, try to get him out of your head. Every time you think of him, force yourself to do something weird, like a little dance for example. You don't want to be seen dancing like that, so you will subconsciously push him off your mind. Also, try to stop making your life revolve around him. Find new things to do, distract yourself. He is out of the question and you deserve to be happy! As much as you might want to check on his facebook page or twitter again, DON'T do it! It took me three weeks, but I eventually got over my crush. I know you will too. And, there is plenty of -single- fish in the sea ;)Good luck!
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reader, Caftin  +, writes (26 July 2013):
 This isn't an easy one to answer I'm afraid lovely :/
Time heals all wounds. That is what can help right now, time to think about it all, digest it, work through it and get over it.
You could try liking another guy?? But that might complicate how you feel :/
So maybe a girls night in, let it all out, watch movies, eat chunk and crush on another guy when you're ready :)
Hope things work out for you lovely!
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