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writes:Ive been having this fat fetish since I was 11. I fantasize people getting fatter or myself getting morbidly obese,Having a feeder or me being my own feeder,letting myself go,fat humilation. Id be afraid to do it in real life because of medical risks. Im a slender attractive woman and Im satified with the way I look. But I have these fat fantasies. I dont what caused me to have them. Im going online to find the causes,the root. I feel like a sick and twisted person. I hope no overweight person is not offended in this sight. Im open for any advice and where to turn to.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 September 2012):
 You need to talk to a psychiatrist if you want to try to get rid of it.
However, the first step is to stop feeling so disgusted with yourself. It's not as though you are the only person with this fetish, or who would create all those websites? You're also not hurting anyone (assuming you don't try to convince people to be unhealthy). I might suggest watching the movie City Island too. One of the actors in that has a feeding fetish and it's not portrayed as a repulsive horrible thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. I just came here because I saw this one man talk about his secret fat fetish because he likes big girls on dear cupid
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (22 September 2012):
 As long as you explore your fetishes safely with your health in mind, there's no harm in it. Fetishes are largely harmless as long as they pose no serious risk to your life or anyone else's. Trust me, I'm a kinky person myself, and you're not "sick" for having a fetish, sweetheart. If you want to go to counseling, please do, but shaming yourself for your fetishes is just going to drive it into harmful behaviors instead of healthy ones!
Accept and love yourself, even your fetishes.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (22 September 2012):
 Turn to a psychiatrist, because you have a serious problem and I doubt anyone here can offer you appropriate help with such an issue.
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