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Was he actually serious-or was it an initiation?

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Question - (22 September 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

A few years ago, A guy in my class that I liked asked me out and it turned out to be a horrible dare. That experience scarred me a lot, as I was really shy and innocent back then. I'm definitely not an attractive person, but I do think my personality is pretty good. (I've been told that I'm smart and funny.)

Currently, I'm a sophomore in high school and in one of my classes a senior-known for taking drugs and being a bully-called across the room that a freshman boy beside her liked me. I immediately flashed back to the date dare and told her to just stop it and that they were lying. I thought it was some sort of initiation to high school set up by her to make fun of me-the chubby girl-and my friends thought that that would be the type of thing that she usually does.

Lately, though, the guy has been giving me glares every single day and acting hurt every time he sees me. I mean, I definitely don't like him at all. He's a SERIOUS TROUBLEMAKER in class and like two feet shorter than me and I'm more into the nerdy seniors... ;) The thing is, though, I feel guilty. What if he actually liked me and I broke a little boy's heart? What if the druggie senior actually wasn't initiating him? Those questions won't stop running through my mind. What are your opinions on this? I'm sorry that it's so long.

PS: Please don't think that I'm a cruel person. I just have self-esteem issues with guys. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2012):

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In the title it's supposed to say "Initiation."

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