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My jealously issues with boyfriend and friends are starting to concern me

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Question - (22 September 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2012)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone,

I'v been having a lot of jealousy issues lately its not only with my boyfriend but even with my girlfriends..like if I think that my 2 girlfriends are getting close to each other I get jealous cuz I want both of them to be close to me and not to each other..!I just feel that they are mine and I don't want to share them with anyone else,and I get wayy too possessive..and because of this I just try to separete friends so that I stay friends with both but they talk only to me(I know not a nice thing to do)but I just can't help it..I know I have a problem,how to deal with it though?there are at times where I just get mad at people so that the whole them begging me to talk to them makes me feel important and loved..am I crazy??is this normal?

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A female reader, Peonysheart United States +, writes (23 September 2012):

Peonysheart agony auntIt's definatley not normal to feel that way. There are mental conditions that do spark theese such issues. I would suggest seeing your doctor. If this is something new and has not really been an issue in the past, than there maybe other issues sparking you to feel this way.

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A male reader, Xearo Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (23 September 2012):

I do not think this is normal. While I can offer advice I think it is better for you to seek some sort of professional help. But I must commend you on the fact that you do realize that you have a problem and that is always a good step in the right direction.

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