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writes:So here's some background:I'm 15, a sophomore in high school. And there's this guy..lets call him D. So i have known D for about a year. We met in one of my classes last year, but we didn't exactly hit it off. He sat directly across from me, and he stared at me. A lot. I thought it was really creepy. I realized later i was directly in front of him, it was probably just where his eyes fell. Anyway, being the vain person i was, wrote him off as unattractive and creepy. A few weeks into the semester, i actually got to know him better, and he was a really nice guy. I saw him as a friend. Later on facebook, i saw a very cute picture of him and his then-girlfriend, and in my head all i could think was "i want that". I occasionally thought "God, he's such a sweet guy. Well, you missed your chance". But i started to like another guy, and D was just a casual friend. My other friend, lets call her C, became good friends with him. My other friends in that class and I all thought she liked him. But she never admitted it. Fast forward to this year. I stopped liking that other guy and D broke up with his girlfriend. Me, D, and C are all in one class, and D and I are in another class without C. Me and D became better friends. One class, we had a total bonding session where we talked for all of one of the classes and the next one too. We became much so much closer. And i noticed in the class with just me and him...he was kind of flirting. He'd say things like "thats real cute" and grab my shoulder or arm. Once he grabbed and held my hand. And as I talked to him, when i caught him from the side I'd think "God he's cute". And he's so funny and sweet! I'm pretty sure he likes me, but here's the confusing part. So when I'm around him or directly after being around him. in my heart it feels like I like him. But when we're apart I don't like him. I went on vacation for a week and at the end of that week i was sure i didn't like him. I was also sure I only liked the thought of being in a relationship. But the next day when i was around him I was sure i liked him. Its so confusing! And then theres C, who may or may not like him herself. There are times when he looks really cute and other times I'm like "nahh". it's so confusing! My best friend says i talk about him a lot and she thinks I like him but i don't know. Do you think I like him?Sorry its so long. And thank you for answering.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust wanna put this out there, the site made my title. I really want to figure out my feelings first. I may be young and I'm sure I'm going to get a million "you are so young" responses, but i really just want to find out how i feel. I have to figure out that before anything else.
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