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*oonlight_dreamer555
writes:I have been with my BF for over a year now. We are both in our early 20's. We are very open and he know I am bi curious, and he is even willing to let me "explore" those curiosities, if an opportunity happen to present itself. Well, we are friends with a married couple that is the same age. And we all spend quite a bit of time together, mostly me and her. My bf and I are pretty convinced that she is interested in me...but my bf just jokes around about it. Where as, I am a little curious...My concerns are, how she would react if i approached her, and how her husband would feel. He is very conservative..where as she is not so much. She always tells me how beautiful and adorable I am, and she always drops very obvious hints that she wants to kiss me. I really don't know how to handle this. Please Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (23 September 2012):
 You don't.
With friends it all ends in tears!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2012): I have a very fun and open nature and have had other girls think that means something else, when it hasn't. It has made uncomfortable situations happen, when I have been left justifying my sexuality, I am married with children, and very straight. ..
I totally agree with honey pie, and so very confused ... Leave this friend alone for the sake of your future friendship...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 September 2012):
 NO. do not do it.
do not do it with a friend... it gets too complicated.
go to yahoo and go to the adult groups and look for a swingers group with some bisexual women and find a woman willing to deal with bi-curious girls...
(they were always my favs when I was in the lifestyle)
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reader, Blissbaby13 +, writes (21 September 2012):
 I would never corrupt their marriage for anything less than genuine love.
Stimulation of the body is not permanent, but destroyed relationships are.
How would her husband react? He may not be as open with her exploring bi-sexual activities as your husband is with you. Talk to her about other bi-sexual women subtly get her opinion. She'll get your drift, and you won't have to make an obvious swipe at her.
But she is married, and hopefully happily so. If you are really that fond of her, you won't jeopardise that for a chemical high.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 September 2012):
 I think for the sake of not only keeping a good friend but to avoid drama, you need to look elsewhere for a "f-buddy" - she is married. I don't care how much she flirts with you, it doesn't mean it's OK in her marriage.
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