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writes:This is an embarrassing question but I'd like to know why I cannot orgasm from stimulation of the clitoris, either by myself or from oral sex. I can sometimes orgasm from vaginal intercourse, or during masturbation when I clench my pelvic floor muscles and thigh muscles. But why can't I enjoy oral sex? It is frustrating!!
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reader, 1busybee  +, writes (22 September 2012):
Sexual intimacy has a lot to do with both physical and mental health. Listen to youself and if you are honest you may realize that you are just not that pleasured by it. Obviously if a vaginal orgasm works for you enjoy that. In short stop focusing on what is wrong and what does not work and learn that it is ok not to get hung up on the "not" and move toward the positive self fufilling experience of your kind of orgasm. Stop and realize how lucky you are to have them at all as there are millions of woman who have never experienced orgasm and never will.
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (22 September 2012):
Dont be frustrated. Do you never feel anything when being orally stimulated, or maybe your clit feels uncomfortably sensitive when touched? Your man could use both his tongue and fingers when pleasuring you next time. But then everyone has a different thing they like. If the way you orgasm currently isnt enough for you, keep exploring and you will find wat works and is comfortable.
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