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writes:Alright, I feel really stupid for asking this one. My ex girlfriend and I broke up three years ago and haven't spoke for a year or so. She went to be with a man that she started seeing as we fell apart. I mean, we were F buddies when they hit it off.I messaged her on Facebook telling her I wanted to be friends, and that I in fact still loved her. You see, I dated her for three years, through high school, my first love so to speak. Any-who, in that response I got a Screw you I am happy. That was all, nothing more nothing less.I stepped out for a few months, and gave it another try. Only this time I got a response of, yes, I would like to be friends. We chatted in Facebook for about 24 hours, and she gave me a call. I asked her how things were in her relationship (He beats her, very troublesome for me.), and she said alright, but they still hate one another. I picked her up after he went to work and we talked for two hours, and I told her straight up that I still loved her, and missed her. I told her that I had different girlfriends, but I just couldn't outrun her. She just cried. I gave her a hug, adnd teared up as she walked back in to her house.Later, I messaged her on Facebook again and said thank you. She messaged back and confessed that she had prayed that I would comeback, and if it were all to do again, she would have never done me bad. She also said I love you. She told me sorry about the message from earlier, and explained that her boyfriend had gotten it, and replied that. She had tried to call and text me, but I didn't know the number, so I disregarded it at the time.My question is, what is happening? Why do I still love her so much to this day? I can't think clear, I wanna see her again. Am I stupid for this. I know that if it were anyone else, I would say they were stupid for considering even talking to them. What do I do friends. Am I in trouble? Or am I in the for real kind of love? What do I do :,(
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2012): i guess this is real lov bro............. those type offeelings just comes once in a lifetime maybe she is the one destinedto be with you forever. just hold on tight to her if you 2 get back togrther and dont let her go again!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2012): aw thats so cuteee.... i feel likee it will be impossible to leave her relationship right now with a abusive boyfriend trust me i would know im only 16 yrs old and was dating a boy who was a little older than me and he use to hit me all the time and honestly i was scared to leave him when i did break up with him he would stalk me like a weirdo i finally got rid of him but only bc he went to jail. it sounds like she defiantly loves you but is stuck in her other relationship but if its meant to be it will find its way. i found so cute that you still love her after all this time .
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