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writes:Dear agony aunts,There was an uneasy moment at the university I want to discuss with someone badly. There is a guy, we used to be friends with, 4 years ago when I entered the university, the kind of friends you meet first when you enter a large place like state university, the kind of friends you hold on to not to get really lost. It's been two years since we stopped hanging out, we just give each other a hearty handshake and a nod every time we meet each other, that's all.Yesterday I was waiting for my gf outside the class. We have a very good relationship, it's been a year since we met each other and it didn't wear off even a little bit. We don't study together, she's taking some extra-curriculum. So I was standing near the class and waiting for her to show up. The friend I was talking about before was also there, he told me that there was a girl he was really crazy about. Guess who? So, imagine what I was like when my gf showed up, and he wispered "Here she comes". She gave me a kiss and he was almost going to kill me. Then they went inside the class and the lecture began, and I could see them sitting together and chatting. I asked about him later on, she said, he was always sitting next to her, a nice guy, nothing special, so we left the subject.I can't say I'm jealous much, my gf is a very very beatiful AND clever girl, she could get almost any guy in the world if she wanted to, but if she's with me for a long time already, that means something.I'm not sure if I should worry he can steal her from me since there is not much he can steal, not sure if our friendship can be ruined since I don't know if it ever existed. I just wanted, you know, to share all this stuff with someone who barely knows me, get a tiny little feedback, say thank you and move on. :) I guess, that's ok :)
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reader, NerdyGuy +, writes (20 September 2012):
NerdyGuy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys, I'm not worried much, but it is still very helpfull!
So_Very_Confused, special thanks to you, now I know the word "acquaintances" :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2012): If your girlfriend loves you, she won't leave you for someone else. If she does, then she's not worth it anyway.
You say she could have any guy that she wanted, but you don't walk about all day worrying that she's going to leave you for another guy. I think reason you're worrying about this guy is because you're aware that he does like her, he's told you, its FACT! The truth is though, there's probably loads of guys from other areas of the university that you don't know about who like her too, but with each day that passes, she's STILL with you.
If she was the easy come easy go kind of girl, I'd say she would have left you for another guy by now.
Think about it...
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 September 2012):
 you are not friends with this guy... you are acquaintances..
and no one can STEAL a person from another person...
if she is able to be "stolen" then she was not that into you in the first place.
I'd not worry at all.
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