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I want to know how to keep our sex life spicy?

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Question - (29 June 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend and I are not engaging in penetrative sex, until we are ready to it.

I want to know what more we can do, at the moment, we kiss, she humps on me, I give her oral whilst she lies down to climax, she gives me hand pleasure to climax, she gives me oral whilst I sit down.

I want to have some ideas to vary things, especially the oral part for both, although I want to take the initiative. I have bought flavoured condoms and flavoured lube for oral play, how else can we do fun things?

Different positions?

Thanks for answers, we aren't that experienced, and she is a bit shy at times.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2012):

Good communication is the key.

Focus on developing great empathy and make her feel safe and supported.

Keep up all the sensual things that make her feel comfortable

And maybe see if you can also pick up some tips from this article from DearCupid articles

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/spicing-up-your-sex-life.html

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2012):

Hey. Why don't you try 69-ing. This adds a greater depth of intimacy to a relationship as you are plesuring each other at the same time.

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