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writes:I am 31 years old, its been my second time loosing my job cause the wife of my ex bosses get insecure of me, I didn't do anything but just loyal to my job. Now its been a month having no work and scared to apply a job that might have this situation happen again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your answer BondGirl72 , actually right now I havent find a new job yet its been a months and few weeks now staying at home sometimes crying alone thinking why it happends to me,accuses of having affair with someone I can never imagine to have a relationship with. I have a phobia now to apply any job.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (29 June 2012):
 I am sorry this is happening to you. My boss is quite a character and is very insecure, so in some sense, I know how you are feeling. I was written up one year for talking to certain people who had been my friends for several years (also my colleagues). This year I was written up for having a "negative attitude" when I have one of the most positives attitudes in the place. Anyway, what I am trying to say is that people will always talk about you and cause problems for you behind your back. Particulary if you are successful at your job and are attractive. That is just the way it is. Even though you lost your job, consider it a compliment (they must spend a lot of time thinking about you!) and a blessing. You could instead be in a hostile workplace everyday being bullied. Do you have a job now and they are just bullying you again? Do you have any type of support system in your job that could help you with this, or do you feel you are in another bad position and you can't help yourself?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (29 June 2012):
 I guess pick a job where your boss's wife doesn't also work for the company. Or pick a job with a female boss, Or start your own business and be your own boss.
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