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writes: Hi guys, so I've asked about this twice... I'll link the threads if the Aunts will let me.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friend-bullies-me.html and http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-can-i-say-to-just-make-her.htmlIf not, the the first thread is named "My friend bullies me" and the second is "What Can I say to just make her stop."it's been since March now, and she's still sending me mean messages and talking crap about me on twitter. Should I finally give in and text her back? I know that's what she's wanting me to do... but I don't want to. I've went this long without responding. I just figured by now she'd get the hint. What should i do? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2012): Don't block her yet and don't respond at all. Report her on twitter as abusive, report her number as abusive to your cell phone provider and report her to the cops as a harasser. It's time you fucked this bitch up OP. She doesn't get to fuck with you with no consequences. So take action, contact twitter and report her. Take screenshots of all her abusive tweets in case she deletes them, print off all of those, print any message on facebook, everything. Keep all her abusive texts and show them to your provider and to the cops and take action against her.
It's all well and good blocking her but you need to beat this fucker at her own game.
My girlfriend had a harasser before and I decided to take over all her accounts through her email address and lock her out of all of them. Told her she wasn't getting them back for a month after she said she would leave my girlfriend alone. She even went to the cops on me but with no evidence that I did anything thanks to a number of proxies and clean browser cache. I had full control over her online life until she relented.
Bully's do get bored it's true if you ignore them. But if you come down on them like a ten tonne hammer there is no chance in hell they will go near you again.
Bullies like an easy target OP, a person who fights back is someone they don't toy with again.
Don't wuss out and let the bitch win, destroy her with all the legal processes that are available to you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 June 2012):
 Not only would I ignore her I would block her number and block her on twitter and facebook and anywhere else she has access to you.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (29 June 2012):
 Hi Hunny
If someone is a bully then they are not a friend. You need to stick to your guns and ignore any nasty. behaviour she is trying to grab your attention with.....
First I would completely change all my networking accounts and start again, A new start with a new name and invite only people you trust...Delete any accouts that she knows off. Delete her number from your phone and change your number.... I know its a pain to start all over again but trust me, Once you have you will feel so much better..
Do not allow this person to ruin your life Take control back, Some may say why should you, Get this person completely out of your life and once you have done this you can move forward. A bully needs attention, Do not give it. once you have set yourself up with new accounts, Block her....I hope this helps hunny and you feel better very soon
Take care of you love n hugs Peps XXXX
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 June 2012):
 Keep ignoring her. Don't play her games. Trust me the longer she goes on and on and on about dissing you and you don't respond the DUMBER she looks.
And stop checking out her twitter. Don't waste your time on this negative energy and negative people.
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