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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My future boss and I met around work and he was always nice, friendly. We joked around bur never really had a seriou conversation so I interviewed for his department recently and got it. One night, I was getting a ride from a male co-worker and he stepped in to offer me a ride instead as he lived nearer. Nothing happened. But after that, he told me he liked me and I was a bit scared but happy he told me. We went out and we kissed...the connection was great. He told me we can make it work...one day at a time. But I get nervous thinking about it. He's not my direct boss but two places above that...I will rarely see him. How can it work?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2012): It can't work as long as he's anywhere in your chain of command (& your supervisor's supervisor is in that chain.) Most companies have policies against it; one or both of you could lose your job if you date and someone finds out. Either give up on the idea of dating him, or transfer into another department.
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