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writes:I broke up with my ex and i regret it but he says he don't know what he wants but he's still in love with me. He say's he don't wanna get hurt again and his friend don't like me so he's saying he don't wanna lose a friend and he's also saying his mom thinks i'm "shy". But yet he gets mad when i talk to another guy. What do I do? But he can talk to all these other girls??
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 January 2012):
 You assume that he is bullshitting you and does NOT want to get back with you . He can't because his friends don't like you ?? That sounds like a big fat lie- but if it's true it's even worse,then he's a total wimp and crowd pleaser, and he cares more about his friends than about you.
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reader, Vic Williams  +, writes (7 January 2012):
 if he loves u he wouldn't care what pple tink or say about u. Dnt mind him. talk to de guys and have fun.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (5 January 2012):
 I agree with Fi, he should stick to his friend who doesnt like you and you talk to whoever you want to talk to!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (5 January 2012):
 You move on. If you're broken up, he does not get any say in who you talk to, flirt with, or date. If he's playing these types of mind games now, my guess is that if you ever got together again he'd keep playing mind games and try to punish you for hurting him.
Move on and learn from this that you wait a few days after an incident to before breaking up to be sure that's what you want. Though if at the time you were calm and were sure, chances are you're just missing him/having someone around and that's not a good reason to want someone back. Remind yourself why you broke up in the first place.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (5 January 2012):
 It's not "One rule for him and another for you" You guys broke up. You should be able to talk to whoever you like!!!
I suggest you tell him to stick with his friend that doesn't like you, they can be petty and childish together... Time to move on...
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