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writes:I really like this boy. he's not someone who people would guess i liked. but i like him. he's smart, funny with a great personality, however, he is the sort of boy who doesn't have much experience of girlfriends. and I'm finding it really hard try and get with him. At first we were getting to know each other then he became quite flirty which i went along as i was starting to like him but now he has toned it down a bit and I'm not sure why? Also, me, his friend and him were meant to go to town together for new years eve but it turned out I couldn't go and nor could the boy i like.Before we knew we couldn't go, he asked whether anyone i knew would like to go them, i said no, then he requested the girl he used to like, but I'm not sure whether or not he still does. i want to know, but at the same time i don't want to get hurt by finding out.Firstly how do i try and get closer to him and why has he pulled away a bit?secondly, how do i find out without getting hurt?please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both of you I will keep an update :)
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 Unfortunately in life things don't come easy and they are even harder with relationships as you will discover.The best way is always the hardest, but it's like that for a reason; and that's to show us how strong we are.The best way is to find that courage to talk to him, in any way you can but face to face is always best! Tell him how you feel.He may be pulling away for many reasons, or maybe because he doesn't realise how you felt. Sometimes people flirt and that's that, nothing else happens so they just don't think about it.So in order to get a reaction, you have to act and tell him how you feel. You might not get the answer you want, it might be disappointing or heartbreaking but you have to try to see the best in that situation because there's always a good side, if we choose to look.
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