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*dizzle20
writes:What can I say/do to reassure my boyfriend that I'll b fine at my friend's birthday party just because there will b alcohol? Does he not trust me even though he says he does? Now he has me all worked up that I might do somethin stupid. I even asled if he wanted to come. But he said no. What can i do? i wanna go the party and have a good time with my friends without worrying the whole time and having my boyfriend's trust. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 January 2012):
 Just because you are in a relationship with him does not mean that you cannot go out and enjoy yourself with your friends. It sounds to me like he simply does not trust you, or else he is worried that you will get really drunk and do something silly or cheat on him. Tell him he needs to trust you. I know that it is hard and that it is making you feel like you cannot enjoy yourself. Yes he cares about you and he is worried. But he needs to trust you and let you enjoy yourself with your friends. You told him he could come and he refused, so now all you can do is tell him not to worry and go and enjoy yourself. It sounds to me like he is a little controlling so just make sure this does not become a habit. You are a young woman going to a friends party, there is nothing wrong with that. So go and enjoy yourself and do not feel guilty as you are doing nothing wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): If u are going for this party,u must assure your that u will not sleep over,u will not take in mush alcohol,and u will behave urself,not all guys will let you go just like that,he cares about you thats why he worried,note not all men will do dat,listen you have to be careful,remember he is your man and she is ur friend,so its a two way thing,you must make each of them happy today,so who will that be,just be wise,goodluck
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