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reader, curlywurly44  +, writes (7 January 2012):
Chances are its the beer talking. If you are happy with a fwb that`s ok. If you are giving him sex hoping it will turn into more, then that changes the angle and you are being used. Girlfriends and fwb usually are two different things to most guys and they dont overlap. Personally I would recommend a fresh start with someone else and make him work for it. It`s hypocritical I know, but men have very little respect for fwb`s.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): alcohol exaggerates emotion. i wouldnt hold your breath. if you want a boyfriend look elsewhere. i would wait until the relationship is established before giving sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo I am not the one that posted recently if I was I would have read the replys to that other persons question and I would not have asked this
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): Are you the one that was asking this a few days ago? If you are or not I will repeat: you are his fwb. it means you have agreed to give him sex. He wont want a relationship when he has hassle free sex on order. He will find a girlfriend if he wants a relationship. Girls who give sex without being in a relationship, rightly or wrongly, will not get respect or love off the ones they give it to easily.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): If you compare his words to 'beer goggles' then I think you get the same answer.We have all done and said things when drunk, then when and IF we remember, been mortified.
Your FWBs thats it, if you want sober declarations then I think you need to have a proper relationship with somebody else. Think about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): Honestly, I think it depends on the guy. My experience with drunken declarations of love is that about 50% of the time they were probably serious and the rest of the time the guy was just drunk and saying random s**t.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 I supose it would depend on just how drunk the person was.I've said some pretty stupid things when I was REAL drunk but some profoundly intamate things when I was just a little bit tipsy.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 I agree with Cerberus.
Ask what he means next time he gets drunk and lovey dovey.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): Nope, not always.
OP he's your FWB nothing more. If he wanted more then he wouldn't be your FWB he'd be your boyfriend.
Why don't you ask him whether that stuff is true or not? He's the only one who can tell you. But make no mistake OP, We guys don't stay FWB's with girls we have real feelings for, just for girls who are nice and easy.
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reader, bardia +, writes (6 January 2012):
 Yes and no. My boyfriend would get unbelievably close and touchy-feely when he was drunk. However, he also talked about other girls and next times with other girls when drunk (as I recently learned) and that did confirm his true heart. Take it with a grain of salt.
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