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Should I confront my ex about what she said or let it go?

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Question - (5 January 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone, my girlfriend and I broke up about 1 month ago now, we broke up because she didn't feel the same way. She had sent me a text that was meant to go to her ex saying that she was glad when I wasn't around the day before though. But today I found out that actually I was suffocating her whilst we were together, as in not giving her enough space and stuff. This isn't the first time she has lied to me, so my question is should I confront her about this or leave it to hurt me more??? (also my best girl friend says that she won't talk to me again if I confront her, because it was her that told me this information)

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A female reader, Claraw1 Australia +, writes (6 January 2012):

Claraw1 agony auntNo don't confront her it won't achieve anything at all. It could hurt your friendship with your best girl friend though. Learn from this and move on. Let it go.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (6 January 2012):

Honeypie agony auntLet it go. She is obviously angling for sympathy from her ex, saying whatever comes to mind.

It's not going to "fix" anything and honestly if that is HOW she felt, then that is how she felt. You can't change that by confronting her. Instead look back and learn from it.

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