Boyfriend becomes sad or angry and is becoming more difficult to deal with. What should I do?

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi, I'm 16 and I have problems with my boyfriend. See we don't usually fight a lot and when we're together we always have a great time. Atleast in the beginning. We can be so happy about the movie we're watching, the diners we go to even just taking night walks and talking. But after a while he just goes all weird on me and his attitude changes drastically into depressed mode. He suddenly gets sad or angry about things and blames them on his parents and thing that've happened in the past. I try to help him but it only makes me feel horrible too. Tonight we also had a fight about how I refused to lie to my parents to go see an R rated movie. I tried to get him to compromise so we could do something else together but he told me 'I feel like going to see the movie and I don't care if you're there or not. If you don't want to lie that's fine. It's not like we had plans so I'm not blowing you off, you're just the first person I called to hangout. I'll just ask someone else.' That upset me emensely and we were suppost to have "plans" tomorrow too and he told me if he wanted to get revenge on him no seeing me I should just blow him off too. He called me tonight after the movie to talk and I answered. He told me I was making chit complicated in life and that I should deal with things the way they are. I love him and I don't want to break up with him but I don't know what to do; I'm so confussed. I need help!! What should I do? :'(

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