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writes:I am 19 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend. I've never been kissed, asked out, or even had anybody hold my hand. I think this is because I use to give off an aura that I wasn't approachable, but that isn't the case anymore. I really really like this guy who is a couple years older than me. He is my best friend's boyfriend's best friend. He's super funny and nice, and I would love for him to ask me out. He is deeply religious, and has invited me to church a number of times, and I have gone with him a few times now. He has been over to our apartment a few times when my best friend's boyfriend comes over, and when he talks he looks directly into my eyes and doesn't look away. He smiles at me a lot, and jokes around with me. Yesterday I invited him over to play cards with a couple of my roommates, and he came over and was very funny and sweet to me. I really like him, way more than I have ever liked anybody, but I don't know if he's just a really nice guy, or also is interested in me. Is there anyway to tell without flat out asking him? I would love it if he asked me out!! Thank you for your help!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 December 2012):
 There are really two good "answers" to your query:
1. Spend less time and mental energy trying to quantify/identify/define what - if anything - is (or isn't) going on between you and this guy.... and,
2. Enjoy the friendship and comeradarie that you and he share... and "let the chips fall where they may" relative to how close you and he will become..... Friendship really CAN be a nice situation.
You have LOTS of time to worry about "what is going on" between you and this guy who you fancy....
Good luck...
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (9 December 2012):
 I think you need to take a look At his body language here as this can tell you a lot. Here are a few signs that he might be interested:
His pupils dilate when he looks at you
He leans into you when hes talking to you
He makes a lot of physical contact With you
His hips/feet point towards you
His body language is masculine e.g. he sits with his legs open
Just a few little things to look Out for :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2012): If a guy likes you he will definitely ask you out.
he will let you know. cuz he can't take off his eyes from you. he will phone you, text you and he will tell you, believe me.
If his not making a move, maybe he likes you as a friend, or he likes you but his not sure if he likes you more than a friend. You may ask him in a casual way. how? you should know, plan for it. Just don't act desperate, you'll be good. Good luck.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 December 2012):
 Communication is key here, if you do not want to tell him straight out that you like him then you need to try and show him in other ways. Maybe invite him over to watch a film just you and him to show him that you are interested in spending time with him alone. Look in to his eyes when talking, smile, laugh at his jokes, ask him questions about himself and try and flirt lightly to see if he reacts.
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